In the age of modern dating, in which we are spoken of by fuckboys, narcissistic men With inner and basically children around it's very hard to find a real man who will love us the way we deserve to be loved.
It's hard that one To find a real man who will appreciate us for who we are and make us believe in love again.
That real man who will give you that will make you feel like you are his whole world, like there is no one else but you.
You feel comfortable being yourself with him. You two are both lovers and friends.
You can be totally ridiculous and silly to each other, but you still have that crazy passion that we all crave.< /p>
One moment you're tickling each other or having a pillow fight, and the next you're curled up in the sheets.
Your real man knows you're not perfect but treats you like you are.
He values you for your intelligence, achievements and abilities, rather than just your looks and other short-lived qualities.
He sees you as an equal, his life partner and takes your opinion into account when he needs to make decisions.
You can count on him no matter what, because despite everything, he's happy to be by your side.
A real man makes you know that you are the best thing that happened to him. For him, putting a smile on your face is a morning ritual like drinking coffee or brushing your teeth.
He makes sure you don't get angry Or go to bed sad. Through him you realized why every other man was a once-in-a-lifetime thing and why every other man seemed like a second choice and he like a home.
Through him you realized what you have been waiting for all your life; to an unconditional, crazy love that will cover you from head to toe. in these cold lonely nights, warmed.
Because of him, you know that the love of your life comes after the mistake of your life. Some relationships are meant to teach us what love isn't like.
They are meant to break us down just so we can build ourselves back up in ways we never dreamed of. umt.
They are there so that we can appreciate ourselves more, so that we can appreciate who we are and not just settle for fear of being alone.
And what I've learned is that if you know something, you just know it. Once you find your real man, you'll wonder why you were ever worried.
Your real man will make you appreciate all the little things you share; the quick breakfast before work, the coffee breaks you allow yourself on a busy day, or the lazy evenings you spend together on the couch listening to each other's heartbeat.
He will make you feel attractive even in your pajamas while drowning in guacamole. He will make you feel wanted, even if you don't.
Your real man will stay with you until the end of your life because that's what he wants. He wants you.
So, don't settle for less. Don't settle for a fuckboy who only dates you for your feminine charms.
Don't settle for a toxic asshole who constantly criticizes you, or who constantly criticizes you drags him down just to make him feel better.
Don't settle for this child who needs you to be his mother so you can take care of his needs because he is himself is unable to do so.
Don't settle for the man who doesn't make you feel anything and who kills all the butterflies in your stomach.
Waiting for the right man who knows you're enough. The man who melts you with a touch, the man whose kisses light a fire and who makes you feel like a gift from heaven.