When it comes to matters of the heart, we tend to complicate matters , although it can all be said in a few simple words.
We are completely unaware of how what we say affects other people.
Maybe they aren't even aware of it.
Let's be honest -; who has time to think about what someone said and what they meant?
But on a subconscious level, they pick up everything you say and feel all the good vibes that you radiate.
So if you want someone you're into to want you more, cut the philosophical ramblings.
There are 5 simple words that work like magic and will help you get under their skin go:
1. “You”
We don’t realize how powerful a simple word like “you” is.
And YOU? What do YOU want to do? Do YOU want to go somewhere with me? Did you get back home safely? And so on…
When we use the word ”you’ a lot when talking to someone we like. When we use it, we tell it that we want to integrate it into our lives.
We are showing both our attention and our desire.
You are not only interested in your own needs. Needs and wants there.
You make it clear that you are also focused on him. If he does the same, then your relationship is on the right track.
2. “I”
Just because you're into someone doesn't mean you should lose your self-esteem.
That's why ”I” probably the most important word.
Just because you used the word “you” used more often doesn't mean that your individuality, your hopes, dreams and desires should go down the drain.
Be true to yourself. Be happy and content with your life, and be with someone who makes it even better.
Be with someone who wants you the way you are and don't settle for less.
Remember, it takes two to make a relationship, so don't forget to give yourself just as much attention to give like him.
3. "YES"
"YES" is a word that instantly puts you in a positive mood.
By saying "YES" to new things and ideas. say, you enrich your life with experiences and thereby automatically become more interesting for the opposite sex.
Let's face it: if you think positively and are optimistic, people will feel attracted to you.< /p>
Life is hard enough as it is, and no one needs extra pessimism.
So say “yes” when someone asks you out if they're with you want to go for a midweek spin or a midnight walk in the park and watch your luck take a turn for the better.
4. "NO"
At first glance “NO” a negative word, but when you examine its meaning more closely, it can be even more positive than a “YES”.
NO means standing up for yourself, having certain boundaries and knowing what you will not tolerate.
NO means not letting anyone treat you like a wimp.
You need a man who will treat you as his equal, who will treat you with respect and put as much effort into the relationship as you do.
So never let him trample on you and dare to say NO.
The right man will respect that very much.
Choose wisely when you say “YES” and when you say "NO" say. Both are words so simple and yet so haunting.
5. “THANK YOU”
The word ”Thank you” is so often forgotten. We overlook the little things and take someone's kindness and caring for granted.
We should always remember, “Thank you” to say when someone does something nice for us – this doesn't just apply to the people who are close to us.
Men especially like to be recognized for their efforts.
Make sure to pause, notice someone's effort and always say ”thank you” to say.
