You know the heartbreaking feeling you get when a narcissist telling you that you are difficult to love?
Well, the only reason they say it is to hide their own inability to love you the way you deserve .
If a narcissist is quick to judge you for your flaws (and never lets you forget them) then they are only doing it for their own imperfect sad ass because they know that if he makes you feel bad, you won't focus on his shit.
Narcissists need to make you feel bad so they can boost their fragile ego and feed on your insecurities because they are completely unable to focus on theirs to focus on their own problems that caused their horrible behavior in the first place.
When a narcissist emotionally abuses you and takes away your safety and comfort, it's because they see something good and real in you that they don't have and know they never can, so they take you out of pure Envy and malice make you feel bad.
If he yells at you, humiliates you and never lets your true colors shine, you need to know that the only reason he does this is because he can't control his emotions.
He's deeply damaged, messed up and can't be quite happy with himself.
This is in no way your fault. His emotions are completely out of control and he's making you the scapegoat for his mistakes.
If a narcissist makes you feel like it all the time If there's something wrong with you and you can't do anything right, then you need to know that there's nothing you can do to please him.
Whatever you do and however you do it will never be good enough and all your attempts will be in vain due to his seriously unrealistic expectations of you.
You see, he is incompetent to achieve something for himself, which is why he makes you feel inept so he can just feel better about himself.
Arguing with a narcissist is a struggle, you will always lose.
He will stop at nothing to completely emotionally destroy you and instead of talking to him about it, it's wiser to go along with it and walk away from him.
Never let him conquer you and take away all your sanity, energy and positivity.
This is what they do best and this is what they will always strive for.
The best thing you can do is recognize that pattern, learn not to let it affect you, know it's not you, and walk away, letting it all go in one ear and out the other .
Narcissists will do their best to make you feel overly sensitive when you try to talk about a sensitive topic and express your problems.
< p>They will make you feel weak and vulnerable when you try to work on the problems, be it your individual problems or your collective problems.
< p>Any normal person would never try to reduce your worth and self-love just because you are willing to be honest about your problems.
But narcissists will make you feel insane ;and seriously challenge your judgment with their time-tested tactics.
But if you show him that you don't need him and that you've seen through his obsessive need to control you by appearing to do something nice only to abuse you later, he'll see that you are not as easy a prey as he had made them out to be.
If a narcissist makes you feel guilty about having good, healthy relationships with other people (friends and family), they do it's only because he's scared that if you spend enough time with people he knows will bring out the best in you, you might leave him.
When you find yourself trapped in a web he created and you feel like there is no way out, you know that you are the only one who can break free by not breaking free from him lets you control it.
He needs to believe that he has full control over you by making you feel like you can't survive without him, but in reality you are it's the other way around!
Show him that you are not afraid of him and that you are perfectly capable of living without him and watch him writh with insecurity and nervousness.< /p>
If you let him see that you really don't need him, he will finally become powerless and his reign over you will be over.
Escape his heinous ways and show him how well you can do on your own.
He will be nothing but a shell of someone unable to live without you live to feed on you.