Can you spot the qualities of a good man right away?
When you look back at your past and the mistakes you've made with men, you probably think you can't.
But then again, maybe these were all just lessons that you had to learn before you got to the gold, before you find the perfect man you've been waiting for.
Lots of different things he does can tell you how he feels about you and if you look really hard and try to be as objective as possible without touching on your feelings or desires; If you take this into account, you will be able to see if you are wasting your time with this man or if you really have a future.
Anyway, the most important thing to look out for is respect.
If there is no respect, then there is no love in a relationship. Respect is the foundation upon which everything else is built.
So if you are looking for certain qualities in a man, look for those that show his respect for you.
< p>If he respects you, then he loves you too. It's that simple.
1. He will listen to you
He will genuinely care about your opinion.
He doesn't have to agree with everything you say , but he will respect you enough to listen to what you have to say.
This is one of the most important signs that a man respects you and therefore loves you.
He won't pretend not to listen to you or even refuse to listen to you because he's not interested; he will listen patiently and then discuss it with you.
2. He will support you
He knows that you are independent and self-sufficient, but he also wants you to know that you not have to go through everything alone.
He wants you to know that he has your back no matter what.
That doesn't mean he doesn't think you're capable of solving your problems on your own, it just means you don't necessarily have to.
He respects you enough not to being pushy and practically forcing you to ask for help, but he's there for you just in case you need him.
3. He'll be a little bit jealous
He gets a little jealous when you talk about other guys in your life, but that's actually pretty sweet. ß.
If you think about it that way, he's just afraid of losing you.
He sees how other men talk to you and how they look at you.
And the truth is, he would prefer to be the only one who can do it.
But he respects you too much and won't make a fuss about it.
He won't make a scene make of it. He will suffer in silence.
4. He will always be honest.
If you wear something that he doesn't like or doesn't suit you, he will tell you.
But he will not insult you or hurt your feelings.
He'll just tell you that the other dress you tried on before looks so much better and say, “This one's okay, but it doesn't really show off your incredibly hot body.”
< p>" You see, he will give you his criticism in the form of a compliment.
5. He will spend time with you
He’d rather do the most boring things with you than do something super interesting by himself.
He loves being with you, but he also gives you your space.
He values your time and doesn't want you to tire of him.
So he respects your personal space, but if you ask him, he would he will do anything with you or for you.
6. He never judges by the outside
He understands that when you're angry, you don't really mean what you say.
He knows you only said something disrespectful because you were upset and frustrated.< /p>
He knows he would do the same and then he would be as sorry as you are.
All couples go through this and they don't mind each other , at least the lucky ones.
7. He will text you that he misses you
It's not a habit, it's something he really feels.
He really misses you and he would love to have you around and he's being honest about it.
And if he's a sucker for wanting to spend all his time with the person he loves and respects, then so be it.
8. He’s counting on you
He knows that you will stay with him when he gets sick. He knows that he can rely on you and ask you for help.
He can lie calmly and relaxed in your arms because he knows that you will take good care of him .
You will bring him hot soup to bed and feed him when he is too ill to do it alone.
You will call him before he goes to bed just to check on him and ask if he needs anything.
If he's in trouble, you'll be there because you know he'll do the same for you would do.