You're used to being chased. And why not?
You don't have to do anything, you don't have to worry about anything and I get it.
It's one of the advantages of being a woman.
He gives you flowers, he always makes the first move and he tries to conquer you.
Let's face it, most guys like to chase you and they are the ones who want to chase and don't want to be hunted yourself.
In fact, it would be wise for you never to chase after anyone because, let's be honest, if he really wants you then let him get it for you. r fight.
At the very least, you'll be sure that when you're with him in the future, he'll work hard and treat you the way you deserve.
But the thing is die, some guys like to be chased, but why is that happening?
Well, some of them are just shy and don't have enough confidence to chasing a woman because they are too afraid of failure or embarrassment.
And some of them just love women who show initiative and make the first move.
However, you have to keep in mind that if you decide to do it, you have to know how to chase a guy.
Don’t push him too hard because you might scare him, nor do you want to be too passive because that might give him the impression that you’re not interested in him.
You have to find the perfect balance.
Here are the things he will do if he wants you to chase him:
1. Sometimes he's interested, sometimes he's not
Maybe this has happened to you before and you had no idea why.
You meet a sü A guy and you text each other and talk on the phone.
He seems really into you and then he suddenly disappears without any warning.
Of course you already have such a crush on him and the only logical thing to do next is chase him.
Well, that's exactly what he wants.
The only catch is that if he overdoes it and becomes too withdrawn, you will likely lose interest and move on.
But the point is, he wants you to chase him by chasing him breaks off contact.
2. He confesses his feelings to you, but does nothing
If a guy acts like a little kid and would rather play silly games with you than admit he likes you and do something about it, he definitely wants you to chase him.
Put yourself, for example Imagine that a guy you like comes up to you and talks to you about being in a relationship.
And while you're talking about it, he gives you several hints that he likes you, that he's interested in you and wants the two of you to try your luck and go on a few dates, but he never does some of it, he's just talking.
This definitely means he either doesn't have the guts or just wants you to chase after him and not he after you.
3. He plays aloof, but with a dose of jealousy
Playing aloof is actually the basis of all seduction. There is no seduction without it.
Sending mixed signals, sometimes acting interested and sometimes not. But that used to be hot.
Today…not so much.
Especially if someone plays the aloof for a long time, the person he's playing it to is likely to lose interest in him completely because they has no time or energy to play his games.
Apart from that, you are now dating another man and suddenly the one who is playing the aloof becomes jealous. Huh?
Just another clear sign that he wants you to chase him.
4. He tells you how he feels about you and then he disappears
This is totally confusing because if he had the nerve to tell you how he feels feels you, then why shouldn't he be able to ask you out?
Like I said, maybe he's just too shy to do it, or maybe he thinks that you don't feel the same way about him.
If you really like him, encourage him to take the next step, otherwise he will walk away if you don't.
And another reason for this situation is that he loves you doesn't want to hunt, but wants to be hunted by you.
Especially if he's sure you like him.
If he knows that, he will admit that he has feelings for you and then disappear from the face of the earth because he knows that you care about him and that you will find him, or rather you will find him , will hunt.
5. He disappears and comes back
Well, that's obvious. First he'll do the old trick of disappearing and if that doesn't work, guess who will come back into your life!
He's probably hoping you'll take his subtle hints that he likes you , will understand, and that when he disappears you will chase after him.
But his clues are probably too subtle and you misunderstand them, so he comes back into your life and tries to do the trick to perform again.
More aggressive this time. Don't forget, he just makes you fidget and prepares you to chase him!