They say that time heals all wounds, that sooner or later you will know about everyone who has ever hurt you get over it and overcome any pain you may have been going through.
They say that after a while you always manage to erase everyone from your heart. That no matter how much someone means to you, if you try hard enough, sooner or later you'll stop loving them.
Well, I guess that's all just empty words. These are all things people tell you to comfort you and give you hope for a better tomorrow.
What do you want people to tell you? That this man will always be a part of you, no matter how much time passes?
Should they tell you that time doesn't heal wounds, it only helps you adapt to life with them to get used to?
That true love never really goes away, no matter how hard you try to erase it?
Because as painful as it sounds, it's the only truth. The truth most people refuse to admit and the truth no one talks about.
You're not going to make yourself happier every morning for the rest of your life ;wish you hadn't woken up when you saw he wasn't on the other side of the bed.
This man won't be the last thing on your mind every night before you fall asleep while you're breathing.
You won't think it's him every time your phone rings. You will no longer wait for him to appear out of nowhere and knock on your door.
You will even stop talking to your friends about him and you won't him miss more. He will be gone from your memory.
Everyone will assume that you are completely over them, that you have finally moved on with your life as if they were never a part of it.
Partly they will be right. You will learn to live without him, and his absence will become quite normal.
But every time you give someone new a chance, you will find him with you compare to him. You will look for him in every person who comes into your life.
You will find his dimples and the look he gave you. You will also compare everything you are feeling to the feelings he made you feel.
No, he will not tell you every day for the rest of your life floating around in your head. But every time the clock strikes midnight on New Year's Eve or on your birthday, you'll think of him.
You won't wait for him to call you, but a part of you will hope so.
A part of you will long for a never-to-be-forgotten number on your display and a familiar voice on the other end of the line.
Your heart will beat a little faster every time you see someone who is like that walks like him.
You will tremble when you see a car similar to his or when you pass the house where he used to live.
Don't worry, you will love again. You'll even get your heart broken many times in the future.
But nothing will ever hurt you like saying goodbye to him. Whatever happens, you'll know , that if you survived him you could survive.
Well, yes, you will get over this man. You will not live and they Earth will keep turning.
But you will never completely forget him. You will always remember him.
< strong>At the same time, a part of you will die forever. Some parts of your heart will belong to him forever and there is absolutely nothing you can do about it.
Yet I beg you not to take this as a tragedy see. Instead of seeing it as a curse, you need to understand that it's actually a blessing.
Hey, you had one of those rare, once-in-a-lifetime love stories. You know, the ones that books are written about and the ones that are in the movies.
Yes, you heard me right – you were lucky. You have loved and been loved more than most people can ever imagine.
Because if you had the choice to remember that love for the rest of your life or never to have the privilege of experiencing them, what would you choose?
I think I know the answer.