‘Hello’ and ‘Bye’ are part of the first words we learn and people say hello when they walk into your life, but somehow they forget to say goodbye on the way out.
Do you know what happens when someone leaves your life without saying goodbye? So if you've ever been left like this, you know it.
If someone leaves without saying goodbye, you'll break.
Maybe Leaving doesn't hurt as much as knowing someone didn't want to be with you anymore and didn't even have the decency to tell you what went wrong to your face.
And then you have to wondering all your life what it was.
When people walk into your life, they greet each other with a confident hello. Their hello is so strong and stunning and it gives the impression that this person is here to stay.
All the time you spend together they make sure you are convinced of the purity of their love and that they would do anything for you.
And then, when it seems like it's time for the story to end, they leave without saying another word.
They leave like the biggest cowards that they are. People who leave without a word are the biggest cowards in the world.
When someone walks out of your life without saying a word, especially if that someone was a person , who promised to stay, you can't help but wonder what happened.
When someone leaves you without a proper goodbye, even though you know better, you're left waiting for closure.
You're left with a handful of questions that are never answered. And nothing haunts us more than the questions we can’t get answers to.
When people leave without a word, we keep waiting for closure, hoping that the explanation of why it had to end, will one day find its way to us.
But the worst are those two questions: "Can I go further?" and ”What if he comes back?”
”Can I go further?” – You stand there and wonder if you can move on with your life.
You don't want to be the bad guy in this story, you don't want to let love go so easily and you don't want to be the one who ended it because moving on means you made your peace without him and you you're just not ready for it.
”But what if he comes back?” – The moment someone enters your life, you wonder if it's right to embark on something new when the old isn't over yet.
There is a possibility that he will come back and then what? So you withdraw immediately. You feel like you're the imposter in the story because the ending was never spoken.
And you miss him so much because you're waiting for someone to get over it is. The old story has long since ended, whether you got your farewell or not.
It's over for him, you're the one who's behind and don't give yourself a chance to say goodbye. About getting over it.
You didn't get the degree you needed and are now up in the air.
It's ugly and it hurts and it's full of insecurities and you don't deserve to be left without a goodbye but you can't change it either.
You shouldn't hit the wall and hope that the door to your graduation suddenly appears.
If he had the courage to say hello to you, he should have had the courage to say goodbye as well.< /strong>
You don't show courage by jumping off a cliff or driving at top speed.
You show courage by looking the person you've promised to love squarely in the eye see and say what you have to say.
You look the person in the eye and say you are leaving. You explain why it doesn't work and make sure you're confident in your decision.
Don't send mixed signals. There's no going back, there's no 'what if', no false hopes that the tide will turn around eventually.
You gather the courage to walk away gracefully and be one with the story miss a decent degree. Anything else is cowardly.
So if a man is a coward, if he leaves without a word, if he can't give you what you need, be bigger than him.
Instead of being afraid to move on, instead of following the path of this coward who left without a word, be the one to close the story.< /p>
Instead of being afraid to put it behind you and wait, accept that it's over between you.
Instead of running from the truth, be the brave in the story and allow yourself yourself, no more waiting.
Be the one to say goodbye to both of you and get on with your life. It will be the best revenge on whoever left without a word and the best thing you've ever done for yourself.