Falling in love is a spontaneous act.
It happens all by itself and we can't control.
We don't choose who we fall in love with.
It just happens. It's a 'click' you can't get with everyone.
We can't force ourselves to fall in love, even if someone ticks all the boxes, and we know that in theory they would be a perfect match for us.
It has to but this "chemistry" give.
Chemistry is exactly what connects two people.
It's a spark, a kind of magnetism and a connection between two people that brings them together.
< p>Most people associate chemistry with the sexual type, which is the easiest to spot, but there are two other types that need to occur in parallel to make love real.
Love based solely on physical chemistry will not last long. Once the honeymoon period is over, couples realize that there is nothing else holding them together.
Therefore, there are three main types of chemistry that need to coexist, so that the love two people have for each other can reach its full potential and be genuine and lasting.
1. Physical Chemistry
Human beings are visual creatures driven by their primal instincts.
Physical Chemistry, or rather, Sexual Attraction , is the first thing that brings two people together.
It's definitely the most powerful type of chemistry because most of the time we let it affect us and there's nothing we can do about it, but it's only part of the equation.
Great sex can be amazing . It can bring us to a point where we can't tell lust from love.
It can be suspenseful and exciting, but we always take the risk of getting our heart broken.
Physical chemistry is the starting point and it can turn into love, but if it doesn't evolve, if it lacks the other two types of chemistry, it will be fleeting and short-lived.
2. Intellectual Chemistry
The best way to start this kind of chemistry is with this ”click” describe when you feel like you're finally speaking to someone who understands you.
You can talk non-stop for hours without getting bored. You can skip topics and come back to them.
You can sit still for a while without feeling uncomfortable.
It's really a great feeling. It's like you've found a part of yourself in someone else.
It gives you a sense of security and incredible happiness because you've found your intellectual match.
If you're sapiosexual, that kind of chemistry can really make you sexually attracted to someone.
If that's the case then you're in luck because all you need now is emotional chemistry to make the relationship work and never end.
3. Emotional Chemistry
Have you ever had that unmistakable feeling when you think you must have met someone in another life?
Something's coming look familiar to you and you just feel a closeness to him even though you've only known him for a short time.
He's important. It plays an important role in your life, although you have no concrete evidence.
Well, that's the emotional chemistry.
Your souls recognized each other and they knew they needed to be brought together.
Contrasted with intellectual chemistry, the two people connects them through conversations, emotional chemistry connects them through their feelings.
That's why sometimes you get more than you ever imagined.
When you are with that person together you feel safe and harmonious and you know you are exactly where you belong.
He won't leave when push comes to shove. It's there through thick and thin.
Now you see why these chemistry species need to coexist.
Individually, they can't amount to anything; Develop something else and they won't last very long.
But together they are in perfect synergy and they form the 3 main components of a real love that lasts a lifetime.