When we love someone, we tell them that over and over again. We want him to be secure in our love. We also try to prove that love.
We do that with gifts and various things we do for that person, but also with our whole behavior towards that person.
< p>However we do it, the message is clear: I love you and want you to be happy.
A very special way of making someone happy is to give them Surprise.
The surprise effect makes the feeling of joy even greater.
But also the feeling of love and affection for the person who prepared the surprise.
It doesn't matter whether you two are newly in love or already Been a couple for a while, it's always nice to organize a surprise for your boyfriend.
You can organize a romantic evening to enjoy togetherness.< /p>
Surprises for your boyfriend don't have to be romantic surprises, though.
It doesn't always have to be time you spend together, you can also have a surprise just for you organize him or even for him and his friends.
Whatever you decide, I'm sure your partner will know what a great girlfriend he has .
Tips for a successful surprise for your friend
If you decide to organize a surprise for your friend, it is not only important what you do.
It is also very important how you do it.
< p>Here are some tips to help you ensure that every surprise, big or small, is a success.
1. Do your research
If you're already in a long-term relationship, you probably have an idea of what your boyfriend likes and doesn't like.
But if you're just starting out in a relationship, you still have a lot of things to learn about your boyfriend.
In any case, you should prepare yourself by asking your partner interesting questions to to get to know him better and find out what he really wants, what he really enjoys.
You don't have to find out everything in one night. You can ask him a few questions from time to time to get an idea of what would be the perfect surprise for him.
2. Mind the little things
Yes, there isn't that much to do with the smaller surprises, but if your surprise is a home-cooked dinner, for example, then you should take care of every little thing.
A good self meal is already a wonderful idea, but imagine if your favorite music is playing, the decoration is in your favorite color and your favorite wine is on the table.
If you decide to surprise him with a trip or a sleepover, pack the clothes he will need and his toothbrush too 😉
3. Seek Help
For a bigger surprise, you'll probably need help.
If you've been with your boyfriend for a long time, you probably know his family and you can ask them to help you with the surprise.
Even your best friend can help you with this. You can ask him to invite your friend somewhere if you prepare everything.
Or you can be the one who invites him somewhere and you ask your best friend to prepare everything for you in your apartment .
Help from other people is especially important if you have a friend with whom you are in a long-distance relationship and want to surprise them.
Then his colleagues can help you by telling you when he will stop working and if he has mentioned any plans yet.
4. Pick the right time
Yes, it's nice to prepare a surprise for someone on a special day, such as a birthday surprise or a gift ;Surprise for Valentine's Day or your anniversary.
But on these days we usually do something special anyway, so the surprise effect might not be that great; is as if you would do it on another day.
It is also possible that your friend has already made plans for this day and then you have to make one of give up on the plans.
Also think about whether your friend might have exams or a stressful time at work.
If so, a little surprise may be just what he needs, but maybe you should hold off on the weekend getaway until he has more free time.
30 Ideas for a Ü ;Surprise for your friend
Yes, no one knows your friend better than you do. You know best what makes him happy and what is particularly important to him.
< p>I'm sure you already have a few ideas on how to surprise your boyfriend, but here are a few suggestions that will give you additional inspiration.
< h3>1. Cook for him
Yes, you don’t have to be the best cook in the world and it doesn’t have to be a three-course meal’ his, but homemade food is always a hit.
Especially when you put your effort into making him his favorite dish and making it a candlelit dinner. You can also try dinner in the dark.
But you don’t have to do that much, you can also bake a cake or cookies. Believe me, he will be just as surprised and delighted.
2. Dance for him
I'm sure he will never forget this surprise.
Choose some good music, the one you like please, you will dance after all and leave everything else to your body.
Just be spontaneous. Maybe he'll be spontaneous and start dancing with you.
If you're in the mood, it can also be a dance in underwear. Sweet lingerie and the evening will definitely be special.
3. Create a playlist
Yes, this is a classic gift idea. If you're not good with words but want to tell him how much you love him, you can find different love songs and make a playlist for your partner.
You have to not necessarily love songs, maybe you can make a playlist for your next road trip.
The road trip can then be the second part of the surprise.
4. A bouquet of flowers with a difference
You'd probably be happy if you got flowers from your friend.
You might think it's silly to giving flowers to a man.
Flowers are also an option, but do you know that you can also give a bouquet? can make sweets out of?
Isn't that a sweet surprise? It can be a great idea for your friend and if you are lucky he will share the candy with you too.
5. Make a photo album
This is a particularly good idea if you've been together for a while. Then you probably have a lot of photos together.
You can make a photo album out of it and it doesn't necessarily have to be just a photo inside.
You can also stick concert tickets or cinema tickets in the photo album.
The important thing is that they are good memories. You two then spend the rest of the evening reminiscing about your shared memories.
6. Make a puzzle
You probably have a photo of yourself that you are particularly fond of. The perfect photo! You can also make a jigsaw puzzle out of this photo.
You can then piece it together or it can be a quest just for him. If it's not too many pieces, you can even make a game out of it.
If he puts it together within a certain time, then he gets a second surprise too.
7. Organize a football night for him
Treat your loved one to a night out from the relationship.
You can invite his friends, buy beer, popcorn and prepare some treats for the boys and just leave them alone.
Of course, it doesn’t have to be soccer, but any sport that your partner and friends like.
The best thing about it: you can also spend the evening with your girls.< /p>
8. Video Game Tournament
Does your friend enjoy playing video games? And you not really? But have you ever wondered what he actually sees in it?
Try to learn how to play one of his favorite video games.
Yes, you don't have to be a master, but at least you should understand the basics and then you can invite him to play together.
Can you imagine the look on his face? And then the expression when he sees that you really know how to play it.
He can then continue to teach you all the tricks and tips.
9. Organize a trip
A little distance from everyday life is something that is good for everyone. Sometimes just a change of scenery is the only relaxation we need.
You don't have to organize anything big and expensive, a short trip like a weekend trip or even a day trip is enough.
You can maybe go to an amusement park or go rafting. A balloon ride is also a cool idea.
Or you can just visit a thermal bath and have a good rest.
10. I love you because …
You've probably often told your sweetheart that you love him.
You may have told him why you love him a few times, but have you ever tried to make a list of the reasons why you love him, why he is the special man in your life?
You can list as many reasons as you like.
11. Write him love messages
You're probably wondering what the surprise is. You write him messages via WhatsApp all day.
But when was the last time you wrote him a note on a piece of paper? I suppose never.
Write little love phrases and hide them in his clothes, in his purse, in his laptop bag and so on.
Throughout the day If he finds this message and I'm sure it will make his day.
12. Have a picnic
A picnic is always a good idea, but when you have treats and your loved one with you, it needs to be something special.
You don't even have to cook much, you can just have rolls and a platter from cheese and sausages. Fruit is also a good idea.
You can also use it to make a romantic picnic. You do not have to meet during the day, but at sunset or even under the stars.
13. A very special night
Yes, it's nice if you take the trouble and prepare everything for your friend by yourself. But it's also nice to travel somewhere.
But sometimes a night when everything is waiting for us and everything is already prepared is even better.
It can be right now be what we need to recharge our batteries.
A night in a hotel can not only be romantic, but also relaxing.
If the hotel also has a swimming pool or a has fun, it's a hit.
14. Personalize the surprise egg
Okay, for this surprise you need a lot of patience and a steady arm. You have to carefully open the surprise egg and share the chocolate.
Then you can exchange the egg toy for a personal gift.
It can be a key; a message, maybe even a lottery ticket or sweets for your loved one.
PS It's best to buy some surprise eggs in case you don't manage to split them in two on the first try.
Anything that breaks, eat it yourself 😀 ;
15. Make a crossword
You can also make a crossword as a gift for your friend.
In this crossword all the questions should be about you, him or your relationship, for example what is your favorite flower, or name of his pet, his favorite color, where was your first date and so on.
If you don't think you can create a crossword like this on your own, you can find various sites online that can help you.
16. Walk of Memories
Well, this idea is for those who have been in a long-term relationship.
You've probably experienced a lot together in your relationship. You have tried many things.
You have your favorite places. You can take a walk and visit all the important places for your relationship.
17. Reconstruct first date
How much of your first date can you remember? Did he pick you up or did you meet somewhere?
Was it a walk or in a café or something third? Was it short or a few hours?
Try to reconstruct your first date but tell each other what you thought about each other at that moment, was it love at first sight or did you need a little more time?
What were your thoughts when you heard his pick up lines?
18. Give him coupons
You might be wondering what's so special about coupons. Why would you give your friend something like this?
But these are not just any coupons, these are personalized coupons.
You write different things yourself that you can do for your friend and when he redeems the voucher you can't say no.
One may say that he will get a massage from you. On the other, that you do the household chores for him.
The third can say that at the next movie night he decides which film you watch and so on.
< h3>19. DIY Basket
You can take a basket or crate and fill it with your friend’s favorite drink and all the little things that go with it.
If it is beer then you can use different types of beer, even pack some craft beers and maybe pretzels in the basket.
For gin, you can pack tonic, basil, lime and lemon. And with wine, you can put cheese and olives in it.
Of course, you can also add matching glasses.
20. Organize a meetup with an old friend
Maybe your partner has an old friend who had to move?
Unfortunately, they don't see each other very often anymore, but you always hear stories about what a good time they had together and everything they do together did?
A great surprise would be to contact this friend and arrange a meeting between him and your partner.
21. Tickets to an important event
Is your loved one a fan of the local football club? Do you have an important match coming up? If not football, then maybe handball or basketball?
Or maybe your partner’s favorite singer or band is on tour and coming to your city?
Tickets for such an event is always a great surprise.
22. Take on household duties
So let's be honest, who likes taking care of household chores? I certainly don't. I'm pretty sure your boyfriend isn't a fan either.
If you live together, you probably have an agreement on who does what around the house.
But you know that he's had a busy day and that he still has chores to do around the house, you can do his part for him so you can spend more time together.
Maybe he'll realize that and do it too once for you😉
23. Splash the cash
Yes, a surprise or gift for our loved ones doesn't have to be something expensive. The love and the thought count much more than the price.
But sometimes it's nice to get something expensive. Something you've been wanting but haven't bought yet.
Do you know that your friend has his eyes on a new gadget or maybe he wants a great watch ?
Maybe he's into designer brands. You could also buy him an engraved bracelet.
The engraving can be a special date for the two of you or your names. Or … Well, who knows better than you what is important to you.
24. Organize a scavenger hunt
Isn't it a great surprise? It can be a small surprise, but it can also be a big one.
You can do it at home.
You can also organize it in one part of town or you can send him back and forth across town to find the clues and solve the puzzle.
Of course they will Riddles can be questions about you and your relationship.
25. Fun for his car
Does your friend have a car? Does he take very good care of his car? Do you think he would lend it to you?
Has he done it before?
Ask him to lend you his car. And then take him to the car wash. Fill it up too and bring it back to him.
Believe me, he'll love it.
Or you can offer to wash his car and he can monitoring.
26. Breakfast in bed
Another classic gift idea. But there are many reasons why it's a classic.
Who wouldn't be happy to get breakfast in bed? From his favorite person!
Is there anything better? Maybe lounging in bed after breakfast?
27. A spa evening at home
Yes, of course it would be nice to visit a thermal bath. But a relaxing evening can also be organized at home.
If you have a bathtub, you can make a bubble bath for the two of you. Add a glass of sparkling wine and the evening is magical.
You can also massage each other with different oils.
For a special mood you can put candles everywhere and maybe even cover the bed with rose petals.
28. Write him a love letter
Nowadays we always write to each other, but we do text. Mostly they are very short messages.
We also say that we love each other. But getting a love letter is something very special.
If you're particularly good with words, maybe you can write a poem for your sweetheart.
29. I love you to the moon and back
Have you ever told your boyfriend that you love him to the moon and back? Or that you love him more than there are stars in the universe?
But do you know that you can also buy him a star or a piece of the moon? This is a perfect surprise.
A token of your love forever in space.