A troubled relationship is terrible.
Being with someone who hurts you every day and not being able to get along with your partner are two of the things that can get you to the point where you just don't know where to go with your life.
You also feel miserable and you don't see a way out of this situation.
But let's be honest – No relationship is perfect, and we've all had issues with our partner at some point in our lives.
While these issues shouldn't become standard, they are a part of life, albeit they just don't feel their best.
But you know what shouldn't be natural and normal? You know what's worse than relationship problems with your partner?
Relationship issues with someone you're not in a relationship with.
When you find yourself in this situation, you're likely to see all the downsides of a relationship.< /p>
You feel like you're taken, like you can't flirt with other men or meet anyone else. You get the part where the guy you're dating is jealous.
You get the fighting, the arguments, and the nagging. You get the crying and the annoying parts.
You get the part where you compare yourself to all the other girls around this man.
You get the part where you are expected to be there for him whenever he needs your presence.
You get the part where you know you love this guy, although he obviously doesn't reciprocate because he refuses to make things official and refuses to commit.
< p>And most of the time you really feel like he's your boyfriend.
Finally, when you're together, you act like a real couple and you have all the problems of a real relationship.
But the difference between this type of relationship and a real romantic relationship is that you don't get the good parts.< /strong>
You have no one who is your partner in any sense of that word. You have no one whose hand you can proudly hold in front of everyone.
You have no one to cuddle with until you fall asleep. No one who can kiss you good morning or text you good night.
You have no one to accompany you to weddings and other important occasions.
You don't have anyone to surprise you at midnight on your birthday.
You don't have anyone to celebrate New Year's or Valentine's Day with.
You don't have anyone who waiting for you on your doorstep when you come home from work exhausted and tired.
You have no one to take care of you when you are sick, or just being there for you when you need someone to talk to.
You have no one who is only yours. You don't have the faithful and loyal man you need.
You don't have anyone to introduce to your friends and family. You can't say you're in a relationship.
You don't have a better half or your plus one. No, you don't have any of these things when you're single either.
But if that's the case, you know you're alone in a romantic sense and you don't have the stress that this almost-relationship brings.
You also know that you are available for other men and that you can date someone whenever you feel like it.
So if you think your almost-relationship has all the troubles you are experiencing, read this and think about all the negative things it will bring you and think about all the positive things it will take away from you.
And I'm sure you'll change your mind. I'm sure you'll find yourself wasting your time with someone who doesn't want to stand by you and will probably never change their views.
You'll find that you're actually in stuck in a tagless relationship when that's the last thing you want.
You'll see that you deserve someone who will proudly call you their girlfriend. That you deserve someone who will be yours and who will truly love you.