The world would be a happier place if we could choose how and who we love.
It would be so much easier if, with the snap of our fingers, we could remove the person who isn't right for us from our systems, never to think about it again. Unfortunately, things don't work that way, do they?
Yet sometimes this is exactly what you need to do, even if it seems like an impossible mission.
Sometimes you have to be strong enough to make the decision to stop loving someone who is obviously not worthy of you or who is making your life miserable.
Sometimes you have to stop waiting for the man who won't come back to come back. You need to stop giving him a place in your life when it's clearly not what he wants.
I know you keep getting your hopes up and thinking that the man you love so much will change.
You firmly believe that he will come to his senses and that things will be different between you.
I hate being the one that bursts your bladder and the one that breaks your heart, but I have to tell you none of this will ever happen.
He'll continue to be the same fool he was always was and you will lose more of your time if you don’t stop having a place for him in your heart.
I don’t want to be cruel, but it is it's obvious this guy doesn't love you back and it's clear he doesn't deserve your trouble.
What's worse – he doesn’t want your love either. He doesn't respect your feelings, he doesn't appreciate your sacrifices and your loving heart.
What more proof do you need to understand that he is not worthy of you ? What else does he have to do for you to finally realize that he will never become the man you need and that he will never be able to give you the love you need?
What has to happen for you to finally remove him from your heart? So you don't make excuses for him and stop justifying him ?
I know you're looking for reasons all the time. You can't help but wonder why he doesn't love you the way he should and why is he doing all these things to drive you away.
I know you are looking for an explanation and an ending that will help you move on. Is he incapable of loving anyone or are you the only one he cannot love?
My love, it is time to accept that these are the questions that will remain unanswered, just as you must accept that waiting for him is in vain. And even if you knew the answer, it wouldn't change a thing, would it ? Then why are you still dealing with it?
Instead of racking your mind with thoughts of this man and wasting your time waiting for him just for him to come to his senses, focus your energies on your ultimate goal, which is to get rid of That man in your system.
It's about time you stopped giving him the love he doesn't deserve. You need to stop hurting yourself and giving him the attention he doesn’t deserve.
I won't lie to you- this will be anything but easy. Still, it's something you must do for your own good.
It's time to face the harsh truth and acknowledge the fact that you mean nothing to this man are more than a plan B and a safety net. A woman who will put her life on hold for him when he feels like it.
It's time to realize that you will never be his priority and his first choice.< /p>
It's time to deviate from this road to nowhere and start walking your own path. Take your life into your own hands and choose to love yourself more than you love that fool.
More importantly, take care of the healing decide and no longer for the pain. You should choose to let go instead of holding on, choose the future instead of the past, and choose happiness instead of sorrow.