Can't you see how hard she's trying? Can't you see that you're everything she ever hoped for?
Can't you see that she's trying so hard just for you?
Any normal man would be ;would choose her without hesitation. And yet you let her slip away.
She knows she's not perfect, but she tries. She tries to be good for you with every cell of her body, with all her heart and soul.
She is restless and no matter how hard she runs into your wall and is thrown back will, she will always try again.
And again. And again, until she finally makes it.
The truth is that it is more than enough. She is more than any that came before.
And probably more than any that comes after her. But you're too dumb to know.
So don't you tell her or anyone else that she's not good enough.
Don't you destroy her confidence because of your own demons or insecurities.
Don't let your fears of commitment cause you to lose a good girl.
Don't let it be something you love most regret when you look back.
She just wants someone who loves her enough to match her efforts. And that's it.
Things are so easy with her. Why can't they just be with you too?
She's got a crush on you and she can't hide it. Not that she wanted to.
She's the kind of girl who wears her heart on her sleeve and isn't ashamed of it.
She wasn't ashamed that she fell for you. She is not ashamed that she loves you. But she will be ashamed of giving you everything if you prove yourself unworthy.
If on the one hand she is trying to do her best to be enough for you , although it would probably be more than enough for everyone else when you're out there fighting for a Guinness World Record for making excuses.
It's not like that if she is not worthy of you, you are not worthy.
I pray you don't screw it up to the point of no return. To the point where she stops looking at you the way she does.
Where she stops talking about you with admiration.
Where she stops checking your social media profiles.
Where her eyes don't light up when you enter the room.
When she stops, only at that Thoughts of you getting butterflies in your stomach.
Because once she stops, you've lost her forever.
You're afraid to let go. You're afraid you're missing out on too much by committing to a single person.
You're afraid of the expectations and the effort that goes into a relationship.
It's easier this way, isn't it? Don't commit yourself, don't tie yourself to one person, don't have anyone who expects anything from you.
To wander from one person to another without ever fully giving your heart to anyone for fear someone might break it.
But all of this leads to being in a cold wake up in bed feeling lonely even in a crowded room and feeling cold inside even when it's 40 degrees outside.
Although you don't see it now, is it's the truth.
If you keep seeing her flaws, she'll get tired.
If you continue to see her as someone who can't do anything right, or if you continue to focus on her imperfections, she will eventually see herself as not good enough for you.
And her will leave.
She won't leave because she doesn't want to be with you.
She will leave because you will convince her with your behavior that she doesn't want you is good enough.
She will leave because she thinks she is making room in your life for someone worthy of your love.
Before you ruin both your lives, before you break them, stop and think.
Think about who was fighting for you all along.
< p>Think about who was there for you whenever you needed it.
Think about who knows you better than you know yourself. All roads lead to you.
You're just too damn blind to see it right now.
But you will open your eyes. Eventually you will see her worth and that she was a unique girl. I just hope it won't be too late.
Because if you let her go, if you convince her that she's not good enough, she'll carry that cross until then she's alive.
She'll go through her life thinking there's something wrong with her, although you just needed to expose her flaws so you have some kind of excuse for not committing .
In reality, she's perfect, but it's easier for you to beat her than to stand up and face your demons.
Don't project your insecurities onto her. Don't put them down so you can stay up. She deserves more than that.
If you're not ready, let her go. Thank her for everything and send her on her way.
Don't keep her at a distance because it will kill her.
Let her be happy with someone who knows ;that she is perfect just the way she is who will not see her as not good enough.
Let her find her own happiness when you are not ready, her to choose.
Because there will be someone who will appreciate your efforts. and who can put her first.
She wants it to be you, but honestly, you don't have to be. Sometimes God gives us the greatest gifts by not accepting our prayers.
