You don't have to bend over backwards to win her heart , but you have to be a decent person.
Be better to her than you have been to any woman before her, because she deserves it.
She doesn't want you to give up your life or change it drastically just because you met her.
She just wants to be an important part of this life. You don't have to neglect your friends and interests for her, nor forget your goals; she just wants you to make time for her.
She doesn't have to be with you every single hour. She also has her own life and respects yours. But that doesn't mean you can't meet up regularly.
She wants you to be her accomplice.
She wants you two to have a great time together. She wants you to be a team. Best friends. Two lovers. Yin and yang.
She wants someone she can be with. She wants someone she can trust completely.
She wants to know that you are proud to have someone like her by your side. She wants to meet your friends and she wants you to hang out with hers.
She wants to feel irreplaceable.
She wants to know that you will not chase after another woman as soon as the opportunity presents itself. She wants to know that you wouldn't risk what you have for anything or anyone.
She wants you to choose her over all other women. She wants to look you in the eye and feel like the most beautiful and extraordinary woman in the world.
Even if she thinks differently about herself.
She knows that there are countless women out there who are more beautiful, smarter and more successful than her. But she tries to do her best every day. If you are right for her, that will be more than enough.
If you are the right one for her, you will reassure her that you don't care about all other women because to you she is the best, because she means everything to you.
Her is caring, not clingy.
When a woman is in love, she will surprise you with beautiful things. She will be loving, attentive and understanding, but that doesn't mean she can be trampled on.
She must be treated with respect. She needs to know that you are not playing games and that you care about her as much as you do to her.
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But you have to check in with her, text her, and call her every once in a while. And I repeat – now and then – she doesn't want you texting her 24/7. She just needs to know that you are there, that you are in love and that you care about her.
She wants to see that you are keen on spending time with her and that you make sure to see her often. She doesn’t need anyone to fool her and make her more sad than happy.
She doesn’t want you to support her (financially) – she wants your support. And that makes a huge difference.
Don't jump to conclusions. She doesn't want your money. She's perfectly capable of earning it herself.
She is a strong and independent woman who takes care of herself. You can't impress her with luxurious gifts, expensive restaurants and material things.
Your attention and time are the gifts she really needs. She doesn't mind getting a hot dog from the stand with you – your company is important to her. Oh, she'll even buy you the hot dog herself.
She doesn't want you to take the stars out of the sky for her. She wants to grab them with you.
She wants you there. She wants you close. Close to her heart, body and soul, she knows there is nothing she can't accomplish with you by her side.
She wants someone who is in good as in bad times stays with her. She wants someone who is willing to be a part of her life.
You can build a life with her – a life that is far better than you could ever imagine or dream of and all you have to do is make sure she feels safe in your arms.
Hug her tight enough so she knows you're not going to let her go – that you're there, that you mean it and want to try.
Hug her tight enough so she knows that despite her imperfections, she's perfect for you.