Please don't come near me if you don't intend to stay

Please don't come near me if you don't intend to stay

I knowß nothing about the girls you are used to and I have no intention of convincing you that I am a special delicate flower but the truth is I am looking for some things that probably not that common in today's world.

You know, I'm not a one night stand girl.

Not a girl, looking for meaningless romance or casual affairs.

Not a girl who would be totally fine with you picking her up at a bar and never calling her the next morning.

Don't get me wrong – I have nothing against those who like such things, nor do I in any way consider myself better, but that's just not my thing.

No, none of this is part of my strategy, you make you fall in love with me even more.

It's not like I'm pretending to be untouchable or different just to stand out from the crowd.

The point is that I honestly bond very quickly and the last thing I need is a guy walking through my life just to break my heart.

I don't give a damn about modern dating – you can call me old fashioned but I'm not looking for anything temporary and I'm not ashamed to admit it.

I just don't intend to waste my time building a relationship that is doomed to fail.

So if you plan to come into my life with an already prepared escape strategy – just do not!

If you're going to make me fall in love with you just so you can let me down – please don't do it

If you're planning to only invest halfway and don't want to give your whole self to our entire relationship – don't even try me.

Call me a hopeless romantic, but the truth is that I believe in love.

In real, unconditional love that lasts a lifetime. And I'm not interested in anything other than that.

I won't settle for a guy who doesn't know what he wants or an immature boy who doesn't care about me can't decide.

With a selfish asshole incapable of loving who will end up killing me spiritually.

I'm not saying that our relationship has to last until death do us part, but I don't want to start anything knowing that it has a set expiration date.

So please, don't come into my life if you don't want to stay.

Don't come near me if you don't believe in love. If you are not looking for your true love and if you are not looking for a happy ending.

Don't follow me if you're not looking for a meaningful relationship, if you're not looking for something real or something lasting.

Don't date me if you can't commit, if you're not loyal and can be faithful.

Don't do it if you plan on stalling and playing mind games with me.

If you need someone just to help you get through the day ü survive, or if you need a backup plan until your ex or someone better suited to you shows up.

Don't come into my life if you want to break my heart and leave me hurt.

If you want to leave deep scars and incurable wounds on my soul.

When it will take me years to recover from the damage you have done and when you will change me forever.

Don't do it if you're going to turn me into a bitter and negative person, because I'm anything but that.

Don't do it if you will destroy my faith in love and my trust in people.

Don't come into my life if you expect me to chase you or beg for your love and attention .

If you're going to let me down and if you won't be there when the going gets tough.

I know; not – maybe I'm asking too much and maybe I'll never find the man I'm looking for.

Anyway, I would always rather stay single than be in a loveless relationship or with a man, who can't give me what I want, need and deserve.

Hey, at least I'm being honest from the start. Please be so kind and do the same.

So if you think I'm too much work, or if you think I'm not worth all the trouble – leave in time.

Be man enough to save us both from unnecessary trouble and wasting no time.

 

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