Like all the men who hurt us also made us wiser

Like all the men who hurt us made us wiser

I know this might sound pretty ridiculous, but I want to say thank you to all the men who hurt me. No, seriously, this is no joke. All women should do the same.

All these men have not only betrayed and disappointed us, they have done much more. They gave us so many useful lessons for the future.

Most of all, we should thank them for making us stronger.< /p>

You broke our hearts, and yet we're still here.

We still believe in love, and we still hope that one day it will find us.

Our exes have many valuable lessons to teach us, and our broken relationships make us really stronger and wiser, and I'll tell you how.

No matter how much you love him, you should always love yourself more.

You. You should always be number one in your life. Before you fall in love with someone else, you must fall in love with yourself.

Never allow anyone to be more important to you than yourself. Some people won't appreciate you the way you think they do. They will want to take advantage of you and your love.

It's better to be alone than with someone who doesn't respect you.

You knew he didn't treat you like he should have, but you stayed anyway, believing that he would change.

He didn't try to change at all. He let you suffer more and more every day.

And then the decision came: between a one-sided toxic relationship and the pure happiness of freedom, you decided to be happy again be and not look back.

Never lose your identity in a relationship.

It's okay to change some things about yourself, things that your partner doesn't agree with.

However, you should never completely change yourself for someone else, no matter how much yours Feelings for that person are.

You should always be yourself and the right one will accept and love you with all the bells and whistles.

We all have our flaws , and if someone doesn't accept you for who you are, that's their bad luck.

Take care of your self-esteem and never settle for less than you deserve.

It's called self-respect. When you meet your own needs in a If you constantly ignore relationships, then you are betraying yourself.

If you have a good relationship with yourself, then no man can hurt you. You don't let him because you know you don't deserve it.

The only thing you can count on is yourself.

It's a common misconception that women aren't strong and independent and that they depend on their partners.

The sad part is that most women really believe that and fully commit themselves and rely entirely on their significant other.

Our exes have shown us that's absolutely not true.

The only person you always rely on you are yourself because you know that no matter how complicated life gets, you will never go away.

There are some things you can't compromise on.

Compromise is an integral part of any healthy relationship. However, you should never forget your principles – because there is no way you can compromise.

It's important to meet both your needs and those of your partner, but that doesn't mean you should compromise on your core values, just to please him.

This is exactly how women lose themselves in a relationship.

Proving yourself all the time is a waste of time.

It's normal for you and wanting to prove your feelings to your partner at the beginning of your relationship.

But if you still have to do it all the time even after a long time, then the relationship has no future and you both are just wasting your time .

If he doesn't see how precious you are and how genuine your feelings are, then he's blind and you shouldn't try to prove yourself anymore. He didn't deserve that.

One-sided relationships are the worst.

Every relationship needs two people, and both must fight to maintain this relationship.

If only one partner puts time and effort into maintaining the relationship, then it is a one-sided relationship.

< p>From our previous relationships we have learned that being alone is worse than being alone and we will never allow ourselves to end up in a relationship like that again.

It's the fighting not worth it if there is no love.

You can try to keep the relationship going for as long as you want, but if there is no love then in time you will understand that it's not worth it.

You know, there are so many reasons why we should cherish our past relationships and be thankful for our exes.

< p>All of these are valuable lessons that have made us wiser for our future relationships.

We made big mistakes that left us heartbroken. I think we've all made a promise to ourselves never to repeat those mistakes.

We understand that we are the only constant in our lives and have made ourselves our top priority.< /p>

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