Break it up, run away and come back… That's it.
That's the main difference between lust and love, between physical and emotional connection.
If someone really loves you, they will never leave you, no matter what happens.
He chose you and he will always love you in good times and bad.
When you love someone, you can't be indecisive. When you love someone, there can be no doubt.
Even though people think love is complicated, it's actually the most obvious and simple thing in the world.
Either you love someone or you don't love them. There is no in-between.
And if you truly love someone, you would do anything in this world for that love and you would never risk losing them.
No, love is never complicated . People do, and they make it look like this.
I know it's hard, very hard. Accepting the fact that the one you love most doesn't love you at all.
Accepting the fact that the only person you really need in your life is… you don't deserve to be in your life at all.
I know you can't understand it. How can he say he loves you and then suddenly leave you?
The fact is, you don't have as cold a heart as he does, so you'll never understand his horrible little games ;n.
You need to understand that he doesn’t keep coming back to you because he loves you. No.
He only does it because you are his safe haven where he can hide from life's storms and because he knows you will always be waiting for him.
The worst part is that he is aware of your unconditional love.
He knows how much you love him and he takes advantage of that love in the worst possible way. He uses them to emotionally manipulate you.
My love, don't you even dare to think that you could be the problem, because that would definitely be your biggest mistake .
It's not your fault that he left you.
Don't think that if you change and love him even more (if it's even possible to love him more).
Because you won't. You can't keep a man who doesn't want to stay.
You can't force anything in life. You can neither force people to stay with you nor command their hearts to fall in love with you. It's just not healthy.
You're guilty of one thing, though. It's your fault he keeps disappearing and coming back because you let him.
You're only hurting yourself by welcoming him every time he comes back.
You're breaking your own heart, piece by piece, every time you let him back into your life. p>
I know it's hard to turn your back on someone you love when you know they don't deserve you. But it's really for the best for you.
The next time he knocks on your door, don't open it.
On the contrary, you you should slam the door in his face and show him what you really think of his comeback.
Be strong. Focus all the love you have for him on yourself.
Ask your heart for forgiveness for breaking it, and then forgive yourself for being so naïve.
No matter how much you love him, I know you've had enough. Enough of his false promises and his little games.
I know that you are tired of giving yourself completely to a man who has never proved to you that he can love you or what you are deserves it.
You've already wasted so much time with him. It is high time to put an end to all of this. It's time to finally think about yourself for the first time.
Ultimately, you should always be grateful to God for all the people and experiences He gives you, both for the good as well as the bad.
He always does everything for a reason, just like he sent you this man to show you what true love should never be like.
You will definitely need some time, but you will heal. You will leave everything in the past where it really belongs and you will look ahead.
Towards your wonderful future, where a man who never met you left, is waiting patiently for you.
Katharina Hansen
She is a trained psychologist and talented author. For her, every person matters and every life story is unique. That's why her advice comes not only from her knowledge, but also from her heart.
