After dating so many hopeless cases, have I really started to think there was something really wrong with me.
Was it my looks, the way I talk or my weird sense of humor?
How can one person be so unlucky when it comes to men?
The only thing all these failures had in common was me!
And that's the conclusion I came to after my last relationship shitstorm.
Now I can honestly say I'm done blaming myself for everything.
Me settled for far less than I should have, because I didn't think one man could meet all my (reasonably reasonable) needs.
< p>But guess what? Any man can't do that either. But a real man can!
And as rare as this species is these days, I am sure there is a man out there who will not ask too much of my needs and desires.
A man who will happily serve me ;gen will provide everything I need (emotionally) and won't complain that I'm too superior.
A man who won't run away when things get tough, and who will be there for me personally – not only by SMS.
Until now – never been so lucky.
And that's why I want to be single. And that's totally fine with me.
I don't need a man who can only make me half happy.
I don't need a man to which I have to take care of.
There are two sides to a relationship and I'm done mothering immature guys who can't even take care of themselves, let alone a woman.
Until me found a man who can offer me these 5 things every woman should get from her partner, I want to stay happily single.
1. I want a man who appreciates open communication
To be honest, that's not too much to ask. I mean, when did conversation go out of style?
sigh… I really need a man who will talk to me about the good AND the bad things.
It's easy to have a conversation when everything is fine.
I need a man to tell me my shitß instead of sulking in silence and using it against me at some point later.
That's bloody childish! Be a man and tell me what the problem is.
If you have a problem with anything I've done, tell me and show me that you care by saying fü r us fight!
2. I want a man who will take responsibility for his behavior
I don't want a “bucking game” play.
I don't want to wonder if I'll hear a bunch of ridiculous excuses when you do something wrong.
It's not the end of the world, so talk to me and give your shitß to!
I will love you twice as much if you can be man enough and admit you made a mistake.
I will appreciate it more than anything if you can say it sorry and mean it!
Being honest when it's tough is the foundation of a relationship.
Take responsibility for your behavior and we will have no problem!
3. I want a man who is trustworthy and loyal
Be my safe haven. Be my rock when I have no one to rely on.
Don't take my trust for granted.
I don't want to regret giving myself to you. to have opened. It's not easy for me, you know?
If you tell me you will do something, then do it.
If you promise me that you will do it pick up for our date, do it.
Don't make me think I can't trust you.
The one person I should trust with my life, are you!
And I do. So don't make me question your loyalty.
When I realize that I can trust you with everything, our relationship will blossom.
I promise that I will be the same to you.
Just return the favor and we will be the couple everyone sets an example to!
4. I want a man with empathy and compassion
You really need to understand me when I'm going through something and be there for me.
I need a man who will hold my hand even if I look like I don't want it (smaller Tip: I always want it!).
If something bad happens to me, you have to be there every step of the way.
Not because you feel like you you have to, but because you want to.
You must love me so much that when I am sad you are sad.
I don’t want this to come off in any way wrong, but I think you know what I mean.
When you love someone, their happiness is your happiness and his grief your grief.
And that's what I want more than anything else.
That you feel really shattered when I suffer.
My heart breaks when someone I love is in trouble.
Is that too much to ask?
5. I want a man who is emotionally mature and supports me
Emotional maturity is a quality I have never encountered in a man.
So I can only dream of finding someone like that. But I take that as a good sign.
All the guys I've dated so far were more than immature, and now white&szz; me what I need to be looking for!
And when I find it, I will know that I have found a real man.
A man who will not get irrationally angry when I wants to go out with my girlfriends.
A man who won't throw a fit when he sees me talking to a friend.
A man who will support and trust me .
A man who knows that my heart is only for him and for no one else.
Someone who is mature enough to never allow that stupid jealousy is ruining what we have.
And that man is out there somewhere.
I know; that. And I'll stay single until I find someone just like that.