Writing to a guy can be really tricky.
You have to look at every message you think carefully about what you write to him and you need to know when to say what.
You should be especially careful when sending him messages that he may interpret as clingy or needy, otherwise it may give the impression that you want something serious too soon.
< p>That's why I'm here to tell you what not to text him if you want to stay with him.
So read on carefully so he does everything for it, your friend to be.
Table of ContentsShow 1 1. “Please don't leave me. I can't live without you.” 2 2. “I don’t want a better man than you.” 3 3. “I'm sorry you're so angry about me. It won't happen again.” 4 4. “I think about you all the time. Are you coming home soon?” 5 5. “Where are you right now? I called you but you didn't answer.” 6 6. “I'll do anything you want. Please just stay with me.” 7 7. “Who was the woman you were talking to?” 8 8. “I will wait for you tonight until you come home”
1. “Please don't leave me. I can't live without you.”
If you text him something like this, it will look like a cry for help.
It shows that you are desperate and that you will put up with anything just to keep him with you.
If you have any self-respect, you will not send him this message but will work on yourself.
You might think it's a good idea to openly let him know how you feel, but darling, trust me, that's not going to help you stay with him.
It's just gonna be make it worse.
2. “I don’t want a better man than you.”
If you got a text like that from your guy, what would you think?
You wouldn't be happy about that, would you?
You would feel like you can do whatever you want with him and that despite everything, he will always love you. Well, he doesn't think differently than you do.
By doing so, you show him that he is the only man for you and that other options are out of the question for you, never mind what he does.
And I'll tell you this, sometimes keeping your options open is the best thing you can do for yourself.
3. “I'm sorry you're so mad about me. It won't happen again.”
I repeat: you are serving him your heart on a silver platter.
With these words you are telling him that you will do what he wants every time instead of doing what makes you happy.
When your guy can't deal with the fact that you have your own life and that you can have fun without him ; then you shouldn't have anything to do with him.
Don't let him treat you like that. Don't apologize for being happy without him.
Don't let the fire in your eyes die just to make him happy.
No man deserves something like that. And if you do, he'll never make you go through something like that because of him.
4. “I think about you all the time. Are you coming home soon?”
When you send him a message like this, you are telling him that he is the center of your universe.
Instead of having fun with your friends, you just sit there and wait for him to come home.
You're signaling to him that you're desperate when he's not around and that you desperately need him.
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Message like this won't knock a man off his feet, but it will definitely make him ignore and neglect you.
Be smart and show off him that you can have fun without him as he can have fun without you.
5. “Where are you right now? I called you but you didn't answer.”
Okay, this is definitely not a message your boyfriend wants to hear from you. You wouldn't want to get that message from him either.
It's just controlling, especially if it happens every day.
Sending him a message like this will make your friend feel like you're suffocating him.
He will feel like you need to know what's going on in his life every second and that can be quite annoying.
I know sometimes you want to know where he is , but do yourself a favor and put the phone away. Count to 10 and take a deep breath.
Trust me, you'll change your mind if you give yourself some time. And don't worry, you'll thank me later.
6. “I will do anything you want. Please just stay with me”
No, you won't do everything he wants because you have something called self-respect.
You don't need a man to take you for granted while you get his desires fulfill.
With this message you give yourself completely to him and let him do what he wants with you.
No man deserves such a thing. Besides, he won't be interested in being with you because you're available without any effort.
This is the perfect way to lose a man, so make sure you never send a message like this.
7. “Who was the woman you were talking to?”
If you're sending him a message like this, you might as well say it straight to his face as you might say insecure you are.
But you don't want to give that impression, do you?
Even if it bothers you that he's talking to another woman, you should never do that note.
Otherwise he will just think that you are needy and clingy and that you won't let him talk to any other woman.
The more you do that, the more you will push him away . So think twice before sending him this message.
8. ”I will wait for you tonight until you come home”
When your guy is out with his friends and gets a message like this from you while having fun’ with the boys you can be sure he will be down in an instant.
He doesn’t want you to wait for him and he doesn’t want you to text him when he going out with his boys.
If he's not doing this to you, why are you doing it to him?
You're just showing him that you're worried about what might happen if he goes out and what time he will come home.
It might not be too much of a problem at first, but if it keeps going, he will get you for it exit.
Sofia Müller
Relationship counselor Sofia Müller concluded that through her articles and books to reach and help more people, so she founded her blog, Ihr We g.
