Most people say they would love yourself. Unfortunately, for most of us, that's not true love.
Some people we just give ourselves too much. We change completely for our loved ones. We lose ourselves when we're in a relationship.
Love yourself is something else entirely. If you really love yourself, you wouldn't let anyone tell you what you should change everything about yourself.
It doesn't matter who stays or goes in your life; what matters is you. You are the only constant in your life.
That's why you need to know what you're really worth. You must know what you deserve and never settle for less. Therefore, you should never have the following done to you:
1. Don't let anyone talk you into self-doubt
Self-love results from self-esteem. Don't let anyone make you doubt yourself or tell you that you can't do certain things.
You can achieve more than you think. You can do anything you put your mind to. All you have to do is believe in yourself and don't let anyone dim your light.
2. Don't let anyone humiliate you
I swear there are people who really enjoy this. might. to do that. And I will never be able to understand why. Do they think they are better than others or what?
Doesn't matter. It is important that you do not let this happen to you. If you let one person humiliate you, others will think you don't mind and do the same to you.
3. Don't let anyone take advantage of you
Not all people have a heart as pure and unspoiled as you – you must never forget that.
In the course of your life you will meet some people who only want to take advantage of you and your naivety.
Therefore it is important that you never let your heart control your mind, otherwise you will not notice if someone is only using you and your feelings.
4. Don't let anyone abuse you
As I said, you must not forget your self-esteem. You must know what you are worth and never settle for less than you deserve, no matter how much you love someone.
Stand up for yourself. don't kid yourself When someone mistreats you, it means they don't respect you. And where there is no respect, there is no love.
5. Don't let anyone make fun of you
Little teasing among friends is normal. But if it's only coming from one side, then that's no ordinary joking. It's bullying and you should never put up with it.
Show people you're confident. Put an end to the constant provocation and tell the bully you don't agree.
Tell him that his comments hurt your feelings and that you can't put up with this any longer.
6. Don't let anyone control your life
When we fall in love, we very often let our significant other rule our lives.
And we only realize it , when we realize that the relationship has become toxic and unhealthy.
No matter how much you love another person, you should always love yourself more. Life is so unpredictable and you never know what the future will bring.
You can never be sure that you have found your soul mate or that you will be with that person forever you.
If you let someone else control your life, you will feel lost if one day they break up with you.
7. Don't let anyone influence your decisions
We all have different opinions about certain things, and we all have the right to express them.
It's nice to hear someone's advice or opinion, especially when we're talking about the people close to us.
But you alone are the only one for your life responsible, and therefore you should make your own decisions.
Don't let other people's opinions influence your decisions.
8. Don't let anyone abuse you
No matter how much you love someone, never let them – I repeat – never abuse him in any way.
Physical violence isn't the only form of abuse in a relationship.
There are so many other types of violence, and that's why we realize it sometimes not even that we are abused by our partner.
Constant ultimatums, controlling behavior, baseless jealousy, finger pointing, name calling, constant criticism…
These are all signs of an unhealthy, abusive relationship and behavior that you should never tolerate if you truly love yourself and care about your own well-being.