This isn't a story about me, it's a story about every woman in the world.
We are underestimated, misunderstood and disrespected by the men we consider our significant other.
For these men, disrespect isn't such a big deal, but trust me, disrespect can ruin a relationship forever.
My mother used to tell me that a man who loved me not respected, automatically didn't deserve me. She was right.
The way a man hugs you shows if he respects you.
He touches you so gently, like he would break you if he touched you a little more roughly.
You seem so fragile in his arms , and like he has the power to tear you apart, but he respects you and you know he deserves you.
By the way and You can tell if he respects you by the way he talks to you.
If he speaks in a soft voice that does not attack or offend you in any way.
When he lets you say what you have to say and doesn't interrupt you.
And of course when he listens to you. He remembers every little detail, which just goes to show that he loves you and that he deserves you.
A sign of his respect is the effort he puts into your relationship.
When he respects you, nothing is too much for him, he will stop at nothing to make you happy and show you how important you are to him .
He shows it with the little things. He may not even be aware of these little things, but you sure are.
You see how he looks at you and how he looks at other women.
You see how his Eyes twinkle when he looks at you and how he runs over to you just to hug or kiss you.
Just the things we call trifles hold, show the utmost respect.
If he doesn't respect you, he won't respect your boundaries either.
The boundaries that determine what you are willing to do and how much you are willing to commit to the relationship will lose meaning because he can't respect them.
He forces you by telling you that love means yielding. If he does that, he doesn't deserve you.
Respect means knowing when enough is enough and when you should give your partner the space to think.
It's not just about being right, it's also about listening to your partner and hearing their side of the story. Respect is so much more than what we imagine.
Respect is the foundation that keeps any healthy relationship stable.
Something, that makes us fall in love with each other even more and something that spurs us on when we feel like our relationship is falling apart.
If a man can respect the woman in his life, he can conquer the world.
The man I am dating today shows me his respect by listening to me and always tells me how much he appreciates me.
He shows me that it's okay to cry because that's me and he is respects me enough to love me without wanting to change me.
That's what a real man is all about. He knows he can break a woman's heart, but instead he chooses to love and respect her unconditionally.
A man who doesn't respect a woman doesn't have her either deserved. Not only her, but no other woman either.
Because he can feel neither love nor pity. He can't give her the life she deserves.
If he doesn't respect her, he'll tear her apart piece by piece and no woman deserves that.