What is a fake relationship? That's a relationship that has no future.
A relationship you're in because you're either afraid to be alone and move on, or because you're convinced things are changing will change, but they won't.
Many of us don't even know we're in fake relationships.
It's hard to explain why, but one guess would be that we simply refuse to open our eyes to open and consider a change.
Change is difficult and not many people embrace it. For better or worse, when you have to make a decision that you know will make things different, change is just plain tough.
You let go Lose everything you know and start something completely different. This future that's waiting for you is scary because of course you don't know what's going to happen.
That's why some of us think that our relationship is the right one.
Because it's easier to believe that the problems between you and your partner are only temporary.
Otherwise the only thing left for you is to accept that you are in a fake relationship.
To make things easier for you and get you to close your eyes ö Opening up and accepting what comes next, here are the things he does that show you are in a fake relationship that has no future. You are only delaying the inevitable.
1. He's not talking to you
Where there is no communication there is no love. Why? If your partner doesn't talk to you, if they don't share their thoughts and feelings with you, how can you even know that person?
Keeping up communication doesn't mean you can need to call and text each other every second, but when you get home from work it would be great to catch up on what you did today and how you are doing.
< p>How else could you know what's going on in your partner's life? Communication is the key. If he doesn't talk to you, you won't be able to know what's bothering him.
And letting feelings eat up can only cause problems in the long run.
2 . When he leaves you don't know where
He's a little secretive about where he's going and when he'll be back.
I'm just saying you don't need to do a police report and know all the details, but it would be nice if he told you where or who he goes out with?
It's not like that that you have trust issues, but if he behaves like that all the time, you will develop them.
And once you stop trusting him, there is no point in staying in the relationship .
The very fact that he doesn't want to tell you where he's going is very suspicious and can only show you that he doesn't take your relationship seriously and probably has no plans to stay in it any longer.
< p>You're just a backup plan until he finds something better. This is definitely a fake relationship.
3. He can't keep his hands off you in public
You would think that PDA is actually a good thing, but like anything else, it can too much of something can be very suspicious and bad.
If he can't keep his hands off you in public and you play along with his farce, you've got a problem.
He's probably trying to prove to others that he's happy, and by showing you that If you do the same, you'll help him.
When you get home, he'll be freezing again like he was before. This is anything but a real relationship.
You don't have to prove your love to anyone. If he does this excessively, then you are definitely in the wrong relationship.
The reasons for maintaining a fake relationship can be numerous, but whatever they are, do yourself a favor and leave immediately before you get seriously hurt.
4. You're always the one who starts the conversation
He will only talk to you when he needs something from you. This means that he is aware of what he is doing and what kind of relationship he is in. It means that this kind of scenario works for him right now.
Don't let him use you and just cancel it. You've tried enough and started so many conversations that have all been a one-way street. You pulled words out of him and it never ended well.
This man just doesn't want to open up to you. Maybe you are not that interesting for him or he just has other plans.
Anyway, you are the victim here and you definitely need to end this fake relationship.
5. The only thing you guys have is chemistry in sex
Don't get me wrong. Sex is great and it's great that there is that kind of chemistry between the two of you. But there's something you shouldn't ignore so easily. Sex is great, but it's not the most important thing in a relationship.
If you only have sex with him, then you're in a fake relationship.
You cannot communicate only through passion. It takes a lot more to be in a real relationship.
In the early stages of a relationship, sex plays a big part in your life. You get to know and explore each other, but after a while things must evolve into something bigger and more serious.
If they don't, this relationship is doomed .
6. You guys don't share great memories
Your relationship is actually boring. You're stuck in a rut of doing the same things over and over again.
You're stuck in a routine that's anything but fun or creative. Relationships have to be fun do and be turbulent.
You should experience many things together. You should be able to remember all the crazy, silly, romantic or sad moments you had together. You must have them to remember them.
If this is absent from your relationship, it means that the relationship you are in is not a real relationship. It's a try that was worth trying for a while but failed anyway.
7. His ego is just too big;
Relationships are about compromise and when one person has to be right all the time, something is wrong.
If he insists that everything be done his way all the time, that means your relationship is unloving.
When you love someone, you show that by letting go from time to time ;sst.
Even if you think you're 100% right, you will listen to your partner.
He never does. He thinks he's right, and even if you're actually right and he's not, he won't admit it.
His ego is just too big to accept that he made a mistake .
This is not a relationship. This is a hoax.