Men aren't as easy to read as we might think, and there's that eternal question en Commitment.
I know you think most of them have true commitment phobias and they do.
I know. don't know why, but boys seem to have their ”freedom” wanting more than anything.
They seem to fight their feelings even when they love a girl and want to spend the rest of their life with her.
They just don't want to be tied down. They want their options to remain open.
Given these facts, most women don't talk about bonding with their guys because they're afraid they'll scare them because they're too pushy in the eyes of men.
Listen so start thinking about yourself, your relationship and where it's going and read these signs to be sure he's ready to commit:
1. He invites you on a real date
Men associate dates with a relationship, with something serious, i.e. bonding.
If he’s the one who initiates you out on a date, you can be sure that he’s serious.
Otherwise, he’d just end it with a few booty calls and casual hookups ;hang out, nothing serious.
Even if he asks you to hang out with him, you should ask him if he means a date because you don't want to be stuck with someone who only wants you for fun. r by the way.
2. He tells you all about his dreams
If he really likes you, he will share his dreams and goals with you.
He will tell you what he wants from life and how he wants his future to be.
By talking to you about these things, he'll see if you have similar aspirations to his.
If he's happy about what he found out, he'll keep in touch with you.
Men want women who will support them in everything they do.
A man wants to be the best version of himself with a woman to help him.
If you ask about his dreams and goals and he keeps the conversation simple , he's probably not that into you and you can conclude that he won't commit to you.
3. He wants to spend time with you
He starts hanging out with you and he makes a constant effort to be around you.< /p>
He takes his free time and wants to spend it with you, which is definitely a sign that he likes you very much and wants something more than just being friends.
But don't jump to any conclusions; sse, see if there are other signs he likes you and if there are, then everything is ok!
4. He never takes it out on you
He respects you enough and he doesn't take his problems out on you.
Whenever something is bothering him, he will retreat to his man cave and deal with it all by himself.
Don't make him talk to you. He will when he thinks the time is right.
But the point is, he won't blame you for his problems.
If he really does he will know that you have the right to have time for yourself and he doesn't have the right to unleash his problems on you.
5. He wants you to meet his friends and family
This is a clear sign that he is serious about you.
He trusts you into you and he wants you in his life from now on.
That's why he wants you to meet his closest and dearest people.
Besides, he will be everything do to make them like you and even if they don't, he won't give up on you.
To sum it up, he wants you to meet the important people in his life because you are important too.
6. He communicates with you regularly
He's not one of those guys you don't know what you're up to.
He is not interested in playing hard to get because these games are for boys and he is not.
He wants to be clear and transparent with you, he wants to put his cards on the table , so you can see it.
Remember those guys who texted you for days and haven't heard from you for ages?
Well, the one who wants to commit to you never will.< /p>
7. He is his real self in your presence
And so are you. You both are really real and you don't have to pretend.
You know that he doesn't judge you for being yourself and he feels safe when to be himself.
Actually, that's the whole point.
There's no point in pretending to be something you're not, because if your partner likes the person, who you pretend to be, then he doesn't like you.
And how long do you think someone can last?
A person's mask falls sooner or later ;ter and then it's over.
You two are different and he knows; it.
He knows that he can be himself around you and that's why it wouldn't be hard for him to commit.