So, you've just started to date someone and you're probably worried that they might be just another mistake (which is totally understandable).
I'm sure you're tired of post to look for all the clues and signs that will guarantee you that he is a real man who won't be kidding you this time.
And in case you're wondering if there's a secret formula that reveals his true colors will reveal, I dare say they exist!
If you want to know his true intentions, pay attention to what he is saying to you instead of just observing what he is saying does!
So if he can't say these 10 things within the first month of the relationship, you need to know that it's time to move on because he just isn't worth it.
1. ”I really like you/enjoy spending time with you.”
It's normal to expect him to confirm that he likes you or that he likes spending time with you when you've been on several dates and everything went smoothly and you feel mutual attraction and chemistry.
And if he can't say it or doesn't want to (and thinks you already know that), then he's definitely not worth it.
A man who really cares is how you feel and if you like him too will always make sure he's the first to tell you how much he likes you.
2. “That's what I want in a relationship.”
If he doesn't say exactly what he's looking for in a relationship, but keeps dating you and maybe constantly giving you conflicting signals, it means he's completely indecisive and probably emotionally crippled.
Also, he may not want to tell you what he wants because he already knows that he is only there to manipulate you and feed his selfish ego.
Always ask them to explain their expectations so you know if you're on the same page or not.
3. “I want to make it official.”
A guy who is only interested in a superficial romance and nothing serious will never make his relationship with you official want to make.
No matter how much it seems like you're definitely meant to be, if he doesn't want to make your relationship official, it means he's not ready for one.
He won't want to do it because he's obviously interested in having someone by his side, or he's completely indecisive with the two of you.
Whatever the real reason is, if If he's not ready to be official with you, he's definitely not worth it.
4. “I want us…”
If he never makes any future plans with you (and I don't mean two years in advance) he should you stop for a moment and think about it.
Things like ”I want us to go to a concert/attend something” Proposing means he wants to be damn sure he'll be with you in the future.
It means he enjoys spending time with you and is willing to do anything to get more of it initiate.
To say, ”I want us….” is the ultimate phrase of a truly sane man who knows what he wants and is not afraid to fight for it.
5. “I would like to meet your friends.”
If you have already met his friends but he still hasn't shown the willingness to meet yours, then that's true something wrong with him.
Maybe he's not interested in meeting your friends because he's afraid of their eventual judgment on him and his actions.
In summary, if he doesn't want to meet your closest friends, that means he's not really interested in being a part of your life either.
6. “I want to show you my apartment.”
There are two reasons why a man would want to show you his apartment.
< p>First reason: He is only interested in getting your laundry. Second reason: He really wants to show you his apartment.
To differentiate between the two, you should simply pay attention to his demeanor when you visit his apartment and you will surely recognize it.
You should realize that he is not the kind of guy who just is interested in getting you into bed, you can be sure that he really wants to show you his place and spend his life with you.
7. ”I want to see you again.”
If you've been on a few dates (and had a great time together) and he never said that famous line ”I want to see you again” says, you can be sure that there is something fishy about him.
If he never confirms his pleasure and never makes an effort to initiate your next meeting, then he is too not worthy of your efforts.
8. “I'm completely over my ex.”
If you know he was in a relationship before you guys started dating and he refuses to talk about it, then chances are he still has feelings for you .
In that case, running away from him would be a good alternative. But if he's somehow suggesting that he's completely over his ex (without saying so outright), there's no need to worry about it.
9. “I want to take you out for a (romantic) dinner instead of a drink.”
The relevance of the endeavors when it comes to dating and relationships simply cannot be overstated.
So if your guy is constantly taking you out to bars for drinks, instead of a peaceful, romantic dinner (from time to time), it means he's not making enough effort to get to know you better, which means he's not worth it.
10. ”Tell me about your life goals.”
Contrary to the previous point, when he asks you to tell him about your life goals, it means that he's really interested in getting to know you better and he wants to be familiar with all your future plans so he can coordinate them with his.
So if you've never heard the phrase ”tell me more” ;about you or your life goals” within the first month of the relationship, you should seriously consider getting out of this before it's too late.