”That's just how I am, accept it or just let it be.” – These are words that only an emotionally immature man can say during an argument with his wife.
The biggest problem, according to psychologists, is the fact that at the beginning of a relationship everyone is at their best Light wants to present, so it's difficult to assess its true maturity at this point.
After completing the research on this topic, a list was made of the most common types of emotionally immature men.
1. The insecure narcissist
His confidence is heavily based on his arrogance.
He spends too much time in front of the mirror and only cares about his looks.
Below this layer is insecurity and the fear of being with someone who might be more beautiful and successful than themselves.
He will choose a woman who will compliment him and feed his ego.
Once she stops, he will project his insecurities onto her, nagging, and her confidence destroy.
2. The Career-Oriented
His only goal in life is to be successful at his job. Anything else is a waste of time.
Don't get this wrong – People should be ambitious and pursue their dreams, but if that ambition makes them forget about all the other important things in life, then that's a problem.
He believes his career is more important than the needs, feelings or dreams of any other human being.
A man like that needs a woman who will support him in everything he does and who will give her whole life to him and his career.
If she ever puts herself first and, God forbid, asks for support and a little affection, he will feel offended and hurt because he genuinely believes his career is above all else.< /p>
3. The Savior
He is attracted to people who are in dire situations.
By helping them, he forgets his own problems and then feels more comfortable in his own skin.
He is looking for a woman who makes him feel like she needs him badly.
He will make her feel good, he will heal every single one of her wounds, because that's how he tries to run away from his own problems and wounds.
When he helps someone for’ he'll be fine for a while, but what happens when you don't need him anymore?
He's injured, he's devastated and he's banging in even worse shape than when he started of the relationship.
He doesn't miss you; neither you nor love for you; he misses helping you to run away from his own problems.
He can't really love anyone because he doesn't know how to love himself.
He can not solve the problems that may arise in your relationship because the only thing he can do is run away from them.
4. The addict
Drugs, alcohol, gambling or food – everything he is addicted to brings him great joy.
He is looking for a woman who can give him an adrenaline rush.
A married woman, his high school crush, or even his ex-girlfriend can give him that extra kick.
And when he's fed up with you, he'll move on to his next victim.< /p>
His biggest problem is that he doesn't evolve, so he will always depend on someone else and never be on his own.
5. The Mama's Boy
Every woman knows at least one mama's boy. The most important and only true relationship in his life is with his mother.
No matter if he loves her or hates her, he will always compare the women in his life to her.
Her will always be the role model and you will never reach their level.
No matter what you do, no matter what you give him, his mother has done much better and given him much more.< /p>
He's looking for his mother's approval, and you don't exactly have much say in the relationship.
The woman he is looking for is either very similar to his mother or the complete opposite of her.
6. The Unhappy
Whether it's at work or social life, this man is always unhappy, dissatisfied and in deep depression.
He always feels like the whole world is conspiring against him and bad things only ever happen to him.
He plays the victim because he needs constant attention and affection from others.
He desperately needs to find a woman who will give him a shoulder to cry on – or even better, one that can motivate him and give his life meaning.
And for such women, this type of relationship can be very exciting.
This woman will give him everything he needs because she loves him.
But the more she gives, the more he will take and eventually he will just disappear from her life because he is better now.
If you find that your husband is one of these types, don't tell yourself that you can change him. His toxicity will most likely poison you as well.
He's just emotionally immature and you should stay away from him.
Stop wasting your time with him and find someone who is mature enough and deserves a woman like you.