Does he love me?
Every woman probably asks this question at some point in her relationship or in the getting-to-know-you phase.
Regardless of whether you have been in a relationship for a long time or are just getting to know each other, whether he is your crush or your great love, there comes a time when you ask yourself the crucial question asks: Does he (still) love me?
At the beginning of a relationship or during the getting-to-know-you phase, when infatuation is still very high, we see a lot through rose-colored glasses and everything seems super great to us.
But at some point this feeling fades and everyday life returns, and if there are crises, the first doubts begin.
I have to admit that we women are also spoiled by romantic films and expect great tokens of love that will take our breath away. But that's not how it works in real life.
Men aren't particularly good at showing us their true feelings or talking about feelings.
But there are many small things that are a good sign that he really loves us.
In the following article, I will explain what these are and how you can recognize them.
1. He listens to you
Even if he doesn't have the right advice for every problem, he always listens to you and tries to help.
He always tries to have your back, to be your rock.
So if he dutifully listens to your stories about your last night out with the girls or your last fight with someone or just how desperate you are because there are nowhere in town those great shoes in your size, then you can be sure that he loves you.
No man would willingly listen to stories that don't really interest him, except that he loves this woman.
And nothing is better than the feeling of knowing that there is someone who always has an open ear for you.
2. He tells you about his day
Not only does he listen to you, he also tells you about his day and all the things that happened.
So it is a good sign if he tells you about his day on your date or what he has experienced in the last few days.
It shows that you are important to him and he wants you on his Share life.
If you’ve been together for a long time or been married for years and he still tells you how his day was when he comes home from work every day, then you have no reason to doubt his love.
If he wasn’t interested in you or didn’t love you, he wouldn’t tell you about his life and everyday life.
Men often don’t think as complicated as we women, they just do what they feel like without interpreting anything into it.
3. He is planning a future with you
An important sign that he loves you is when he makes plans for the future together with you.
You can easily find out by asking him how he sees his life in 5 to 10 years ago.
If he says a lot about “we” talks, you can be sure that he is serious about you and has sincere feelings for you.
Having plans in common is an important indicator of a serious relationship: it shows that you are ready to make a long-term commitment and spend your life with someone.
A man who knows’ , what he wants will not be afraid to propose to the woman of his dreams to move in together and lead a life together.
4. He surprises you with little things
It's the little things in life that count.
The little gestures when he always makes the take out rubbish.
When he texts you at work to see how you are.
When he surprises you with your favorite meal after a hard day's work.
It's mü It doesn't have to be expensive gifts or unusual ideas, it's the kind of attention that shows that he loves you.
He compliments you, says that you are his great love – Things that make your heart beat faster.
Of course it doesn’t have to be every day, but if years later he still knows how to surprise you, then you don’t need to doubt his love.
Should you still be in are in the getting-to-know-you phase, then it's little things like him noticing who your favorite band is and telling you that he's listened to all their songs.
As I said, it doesn't have to be anything physical – Attention is the best gift you can give someone.
5. He makes time for you
Time is the most valuable gift you can give someone.
So if he always makes time for himself digs free to spend time with you, that's a sure sign that he loves you.
And when he's hanging out with you, his full attention is on you.
< p>He is always fully engaged and enjoys the time with you.
For example, even if he is at his desk doing things for work, if you come to him with a problem, he will put the work aside and listen and try to help you.
He will always make time to be with you and support you on important dates.
It's easy to do for someone you really love.
6. He prioritizes
A man who truly loves you will make you his priority.
He will also make some admissions or give up things to be with you.
Obviously you shouldn't force him to do it and it shouldn't be every time, but if you're planning a night out together, for example and his buddies call him to watch the Champions League game at the pub, he will choose you because he knows it means a lot to you.
Of course he will continue to hang out with his buddies, it should all be in sync with no one being disappointed or hurt by the lack of engagement.
7. You exchange tenderness
Of course, sex plays an important role in a relationship, but there is more to a balanced love life.
If he wants to cuddle with you and exchange caresses or just lie in bed as a couple.
All of these are signs that show that you are important to him and that he loves you.
This includes flirting: while you're just getting to know each other, flirting will help him flatter you.
In this first step, he tries to get closer to you and see you how you react to him.
Even after several years of relationship, he will still flirt with you, his love one, and show you that he still finds you attractive and attractive.
< p>As long as you both regularly exchange caresses, you don't have to worry because you are his true love.
8. His body language
One of the subliminal signs he loves you is his body language.
If he tells you e.g. with an open posture, seeks physical contact with you, his body is always directed towards you during a conversation – these are all signs he's into you.
His facial expressions and gestures can also reveal whether he loves you or not.
For example, if he always has a smile on his face when he sees you or has this glint in his eyes when you meet .
In a previous article, I wrote about authentic signs that he loves you that you can tell by his body language.
9. He is there for you
No matter where, no matter what time of the day or night – if you need him, he will always be there.
Be it that he picks you up in the evening because you missed the last bus or rushes to help you because you have a flat tire – he is always there for you when you need him.
He is there for you in good times and bad – on your birthday, your doctorate, but also when you're sad because your cat passed away.
It's very nice to know that you have someone you can count on.
And if you know that you can rely on him, then your lovesickness is unfounded, because this man loves you!
10. He gives you your space
Sometimes you need some time to yourself to relax or just be alone.
If he respects that and gives you your freedom, then you have found the right one.
Even if you want to spend a girls' night out with your best friend or are planning a girls' night out with colleagues from work, he won't stand in your way.
He'll just join you that night meet his buddies and leave the apartment to you girls.
He will never want to make you feel guilty because you don't spend the time with him because he knows how important it is that everyone spends some time with friends outside of the relationship.
Does he love me? Your gut will tell you
Even if not all of the signs apply to your partner, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you.
Men often let actions speak for words, so you should also pay attention.
Often it's the little things that make the difference.
You shouldn't make declarations of love to yourself all day long, as they lose their value after a certain time and frequency.
Rather, you should experience the time together consciously and concentrate on your partner and devote yourself to him.
Communication is particularly important in a relationship or in the getting-to-know-you phase.
If you do that If you have the feeling that something is wrong or you have doubts that your partner no longer loves you, you should seek dialogue.
Most of the time you can rely on your gut feeling.
If you notice that your partner is making an effort and investing time in your relationship despite problems and difficulties, you can be sure that he still loves you.
If you are dating If you only just met someone, then you will recognize his interest in how often he tries to get in touch with you.
Men who know what they want are not afraid to take the first step.
If you trust each other and are always honest with each other, then your relationship will overcome any crisis ;survive.
DOES HE LOVE ME?