Finding a partner isn't easy. Very rarely do you find a perfect partner on the first try and spend your life happy and in love.
Most of us spend years and years looking for the right person.
Often we also lose valuable time with the wrong person.
We then not only lose time, but also the motivation to keep looking. We lose faith in love.
Often we also lose our self-confidence. Every next new beginning is harder.
We know that there is a chance that we will be turned down as soon as we get to know each other.
We don't even dare to take the first step to do.
But when we have someone with us who encourages us, who cheers us on, who is sort of our personal cheerleader, it suddenly becomes a lot easier.
If when someone believes in us, it is easier for us to believe in ourselves.
And when we have someone on our side, we know that even if things don't work out with the potential partner, we're not alone.
That person is a wingman.
Which is exactly a wingman?
Ever listen to a man who was in the army talk about his army buddies?
This is a special kind of friendship.
These men are always there for each other. They know that they can trust each other 100%.
Not only can, but must. Your life may depend on it.
The term wingman also comes from the military.
It even has two meanings.
It can represent the man standing in a rightmost front row formation, setting the direction and speed of the whole unit.
Only a truly reliable ;vine man can be “a wingman” be.
Wingmen are also pilots or aircraft protecting another pilot or aircraft.
In this case it is also called a wingman.
In either case, the wingman plays a very important role and a lot depends on him.
The term was first used in the modern sense in the novel Fathers and Sons by the Russian writer Turgenev.
< p>Today, a wingman is a sidekick that helps you meet and conquer women.
The phrase was further popularized by the movie Top Gun and the series How I Met Your Mother.
To find out how to recognize a perfect wingman, you just have to read on.
What are the duties of a wingman?
You can think of the wingman like yours imagine personal customer service while conquering😀
He solves the potential problems, he makes sure that the customers (women you meet) are happy with the product (you) and he is also a communication channel between you.
A lot of work for one man, isn't it?
Yes, that's why not everyone can be a wingman. Some of the most important duties of the wingman are:
1. He analyzes your strategy
A good wingman watches you when you approach a woman.
He sees how she reacts to your flirting, what she likes ;ll and what not.
Then he finds a way to tell you what he noticed to increase your chances.
And if it doesn't work out with a woman, then you tell him every detail of yours conversation and it will help you identify where you went wrong.
It can also help you decide how to approach a woman.
Hopefully you have more ready as an option.
Even if not, you're lucky to have him by your side.
He's a real pickup artist and always conjures up a great flirty line.
2. He will find new women for you
Your wingman knows what kind of woman you like.
If you two together in If you are in a club, he is not only looking for a partner for himself, but also for you.
He always keeps his eyes open and scans the room.
One very important thing is that the two of you have already agreed beforehand that you have different prey patterns.
Your wingman should help you and not be your competition.
Two men Men who are supposed to be friends and are suddenly fighting for the interests of the same woman lose every chance.
None of them have a chance with this woman anymore. Believe me, it comes from experience.
A wingman can also tell when a woman is showing interest in you.
Although you may not see her, her body language will tell him that she finds you interesting and draw your attention to her.
3. He appeals to women for you
If you're shy and have a hard time making the first move, a wingman is just what you need.
< p>He is the first to walk up to a woman and speak to her, paving the way for you.
Even if you are not too shy, it is good to have someone who go first and set the atmosphere.
You know how it is at the concert, the star never plays first?.
I've seen very different strategies used by wingmen.
Some of them start explaining right away what a great guy your mate is and how lucky I am to be getting to know him so quickly.
But I remember one very well, the one with the worst pick-up lines tried to win me over.
Then he made some strange comments and all of a sudden his buddy came over and apologized for his behavior and said he had a few too many drinks.
Only after several months my partner told me it was their strategy.
The wingman goes first, he's a bit tiring and then his buddy comes like a knight on his white horse and “saves” the woman.
4. He distracts other people
Is there anything worse than when you're flirting with a girl and another guy comes along and interrupts you?
Yeah, actually. If she then shows more interest in him than in you.
But if you have your wingman with you, that won't happen.
You can only look forward to your hopefully future Concentrate on your partner, he takes care of everything else.
If he sees that another man has your lady on his radar, he will do everything to prevent this guy from getting a chance to talk to her.< /p>
It's best to befriend him and talk to him until you leave with the woman.
But it's not just other men who can spoil your plans.
Other women can also be a danger. Not just any women, but girlfriends of your crush.
Yes, I admit, sometimes we are one of the hardest obstacles on your way to your lady's heart.
We only protect our friend, don't take it personally.
A good wingman knows but also how it keeps the girlfriends busy.
It not only analyzes the woman you are targeting, but also her girlfriends and for each one he will be able to personalize a separate access.
He knows which ones to distract with a conversation, which ones to dance with, and which ones to play a drinking game with.
5. He won't let you give up
For a good wingman there is no loss, only a new beginning.
Even if you are ready to give up, he is not.
He is the best motivational coach you will ever have have heard.
Do you know how in boxing the trainer yells motivational messages at the boxer all the time between rounds?
Just like that behaves good wingman. Even if you get a basket, that's just the end of a round.
The match continues.
Even when you're ready to say good night, his words are like an energy bar mixed with a caffeine-heavy energy drink.
Suddenly you realize how young the night still is and that everything is still possible.
Is the best friend the perfect wingman?
Yes, one might think that the best friend is also a perfect wingman.
No one knows you better and he knows; also all your best parts and how he presents them.
He is also willing to do anything for you.
But what if your best friend is very shy? Then he can't help you much.
Or if he's in a steady relationship or even married?
You can hardly expect him to tell you regularly helps with dating.
A perfect wingman is that one guy in your circle of friends who always knows where the best parties are.
The one who's always ready for an afterparty and asks where's next?
It also helps that he's enjoying the single life. A true player can be the perfect wingman.
Just be careful, he might have a hard time when you really fall in love and your mutual conquests end.
Can a woman Be a wingman?
Yes, we women are often a wingman or rather a wingwoman for each other.
Maybe we don’t speak to the guys for our girlfriends that often, although I’ve done it before.
But we also have our responsibilities when we party.
We also analyze the room, looking for handsome men or men whose body language sends out flirting signals.
Your wingman can sometimes just so easily keep us away from our girlfriend because we want to keep him away from you too ?
But a woman can also be a great wingman for her boyfriend.
We find it so much easier to approach women because we're not afraid of being turned down.
Don't you believe me?
Yes, hello, I'm sorry, what's your name? Natascha?
OMG Natascha I've been watching you for a while and I NEED to ask where you bought that dress/who is your hairdresser/where did you get that tattoo done?< /em>
I just told my good friend Matthias 5 minutes ago that you are the most beautiful woman here!
Matthias come here. Natascha I Matthias.
Matthias, this is Natascha, tell her what I just told you.
Isn't she the most beautiful ;Nest woman here?
Yes, excuse me both of you, I see my colleague there, I just have to get in touch quickly, come back soon, you two will stay here?
And I'm already gone and you're standing there with the most beautiful woman ?