1. He texts you a lot (but nothing more)
That sounds a bit strange, but if he only texts and never calls then something is fishy.< /p>
In the modern dating era, a man who longs for closeness will find time to make a video call, or at least a regular phone call, to hear your voice.
If if he really hates talking on the phone calls from him will be rare, but unless he has long-term plans in mind they won't exist and he probably won't answer your calls either.
2. He never gives you a straight answer
He tries to present himself as a spontaneous guy.
He knows never what will happen next, where he will be or what he will do.
He knows&rszlig; not sure if he can meet you tomorrow or next weekend.
He usually says he'll let you know, but sometimes he does, sometimes he doesn't.
Doesn't this all sound like he's just doing whatever he pleases?
The right guy would plan dates ahead and most of the time he would know when to meet you.
If he is vague about everything, you are in a temporary relationship.
3. You don’t know that much about him
Even the most treasured man will slowly open up to the woman he is dating when there is something serious about is hers.
He will talk about his friends, family, habits, work and childhood memories.
He will have an unconscious desire to do all of this. He will want to know everything about you and for you to get to know him.
However, if your relationship is only temporary, he will create distance by talking about superficial topics or just short answers to your personal questions.
There's another thing that transient people do, and that's talk too much about things that aren't that important, such as his favorite movie, sport, drink, food or mundane stuff.
By doing this he makes you think he is telling you all about himself, but if you really think about it, you don't know much about him.
4. The future is a forbidden topic
If he hates talking about the future or is adept at avoiding talking about it after you've been a couple After being together for months you can be sure that he is not ready for a long-term relationship.
By not saying a word about the future, he's actually saying he doesn't know if he'll be there next month or in a few months, let alone a year.
For him, everything about the future ends and begins with: ”We'll see …”
5. You don't see each other that often
If you're not in a long-distance relationship, there's no excuse for not seeing each other regularly.
When a man truly loves someone, he finds time to spend with that person.
He doesn't neglect his friends, family, or work, but he will always make you his priority.
If he sees you as a stop on his way and you can tell by the way he behaves that he just pops in when he has nothing better to do, he's just a frontü passing person in your life.
6. You can't shake the feeling that something is wrong
In the first months of the relationship you should be overjoyed. However, if you feel something is wrong, don't ignore it.
Nine times out of ten, you can rely on your gut feeling to guide you.< /p>
Take a step back and try to figure out what exactly is wrong and if you can spot anything about his behavior that triggers your inner alarm and tells you to be careful.
7. He's an entertainer (and not by trade)
He has an impeccable sense of humor, which is a good thing.
But he does makes a joke of everything, which is very bad and disturbing.
By acting funny, he avoids a real conversation, especially when you stumble over obstacles.
He will not solve a problem, nor will he discuss a problem.
He'll do his best to make you laugh and that way make you forget what the problem was.
After a while you'll get frustrated because you can't connect any deeper with all the humor build on him.
8. He's totally immature
He's still in the 'party all night, sleep all day' phase and shows no signs of ever getting out.< /p>
Maybe he still lives with his parents and maybe he could embarrass you in public with his childish behavior.
You can tell by the way he is ;Notice how he cuts off the conversation or withdraws whenever things get difficult or complicated, or how he only thinks of his own needs.
If that happens, you are you definitely in a temporary relationship as an immature guy can never be serious or permanent. He's not ready for that.