When you're having sex, especially if it's your first time with a new man, you want to that everything is perfect.
But wishes are one thing and reality is another.
So I made a list of things you should never do, when you have sex.
If you follow these simple rules, you won't risk losing a man because of a small mistake and you will be able to enjoy your sex life as long as you want.
1. Don't act like a starfish.
Look, when a man wants to sleep with you, he's craving some action.
Therefore you should don't act like a starfish, just lay there and let it do all the work.
He wants to see feedback, he wants to know you like it too.
But if you shut up and just let him do what he wants, he'll soon get sick of you.
No man wants a partner who isn't dynamic in bed.
I mean, this is the only place where you can be as wild and as crazy as you want, so why not?
2. Don't just focus on the orgasm.
If you only focus on orgasm, you won't be able to enjoy all the other things that sex entails.
You have to make an effort to actually achieve one to cum, and that's not possible without all the little things that go with having sex.
Try talking to your boyfriend, ask him what he wants you to give him tease him, change your rhythm and drive him crazy with your movements.
When you see him totally aroused and wanting more from you, you'll feel all those pleasurable feelings that make you climax.
And when that happens, you'll be proud of yourself be because you've been pleasing your partner and yourself at the same time.
Needless to say, once he gets some air he'll ask for more!
3. Don't neglect kissing or hugging.
Many people often forget to kiss or hug their partner during intercourse.
< p>Maybe they do it because their focus is on getting pleasure of a different kind, but they should know that that's not the most important thing.
If you love someone, you should take it slow. Take your time and kiss your partner from head to toe.
Kiss them by teasing them and whispering something naughty in their ear. Make his whole body tremble with just one touch.
Make him crave another touch, another kiss, and another moan.
Make him scream and beg for more. Making love is an art form, so you should just chill out and act like you're the best at it.
4. Don't repeat yourself.
Look, if you keep having sex with the same partner, you can start to get bored with the same moves.
That's why you should spice up your sex life a little bit.
Surprise him with some new moves and show him that you can be the dominant one.
Show him that you go crazy when you're turned on and that you're willing to try anything which can bring you both pleasure.
A real man will appreciate that, and trust me, he will go out of his way to make you happy and content.
See how a little effort pays off?
5. Don't confess your love to him during sex.
When sleeping with a man, don't do anything that might shock him in a negative way.
This includes not telling him you love him in the middle of sex.
There are so many ways you can confess your love to a man for the first time and it shouldn't be while you're having sex.
He might get confused and tell you that he loves you too just because he feels amazing in that one moment.
You should tell him that in a normal situation and not in such a situation.
6. Don't overreact.
If you don't feel comfortable, just don't do it.
Maybe your partner will find it great and maybe it will add a spark to your sex life, but it's all for naught if you're not feeling good.
Don't try new things if you can't handle them.
Stay in your comfort zone until you decide it's time to step out of it.
This means experimenting with some Kama Sutra poses will have to wait because you just don't feel like it. to do it.
When the time is right, you'll be proud of yourself for trying something new and feel great for making it work .
7. Don't pretend you're making a porn movie.
When you have sex with your partner, you should remember that it is better to show respect to him as well as yourself.
Don't act like an actress in a porn movie and don't let him do everything he wants just for funß to have.
You should know that sex should be a positive experience for both of you. So don't do anything you'll regret later.
Let it be something where you and your partner can share your experiences, but in a nice way.
I'm not saying you should act like a nun, but you have to Set boundaries that you don't cross.
In the end, it's about how you both feel. Work on it and the rest will take care of itself.
8. Don't talk too much.
Talking a little to get a spark in the room is good, but asking questions all the time is a huge turn-off.
The point of talking during sex is to turn a man on, not turn him off.
So you better watch what you say.
It's gonna be There will come a time when you will just enjoy it and you won't be able to speak at all as you will have the time of your life.
It's all about timing. If you already have some experience, you will know what to do and when to talk.
If not, you will feel it from your partner's reactions.