Having sex with your ex doesn't always have to be a bad experience.
There are some positives Things related to that and if you're smart enough not to develop feelings after sleeping with your ex, you have nothing to lose.
Here are some good and bad things you should know about sex with your ex, so I suggest reading on.
Table of Contents show 1 1. Both know what the other likes 2 2. You can just relax and enjoy 3 3. You don't have to stay at his place 4 4. You will feel safe with him 5 5. It can feel like he's using you 6 6. You might develop feelings 7 7. Having sex with your ex isn't a closure 8 8. You can have false hopes and end up hurting
1. Both know what the other likes
If you're having sex with your ex, you don't need to be nervous at all. You know his body and you know what he likes.
You don't have to worry about whether he likes something or not.
You will know that he likes because he couldn’t have changed in such a short time.
And on the other hand, he will know what makes you feel good, so he does the things you want.
If you're both aware that it's just sex with no strings attached, then there's nothing wrong with it.
2. You can just relax and enjoy
If you're having sex with your ex, you don't have to beat yourself up if something goes wrong.
He already knows your body and what you like in bed, so there's no doubt you'll have great sex.
So as long as you both agree, just relax and enjoy because there is nothing to worry about.
3. You don't have to stay at his place
The thing is, if you're having sex with your ex, you won't make a scene if he leaves right after you've done your thing finished.
You won't feel used or bad because you're not together and you can both do whatever you want.
If you want you can stay overnight and if you don't want you can just leave. Neither of you will get hurt.
4. You'll feel safe with him
When you're having sex with someone new, you know; you know nothing about that person.
You don't know if he likes it rough or slow and you're just not ready for that kind of thing.
But if you Having sex with your ex is like coming back home where everything is familiar.
And this feeling will make you feel safe and you will be ready to completely relax and enjoy yourself.
On the other hand…
5. It can feel like he is using you
When you break up and have sex with your ex, you may think that he is seducing you, because he wants to use you for his own satisfaction and just leaves you like the first time.
Maybe he feels good with you because he knows what you want and you know what he wants, so he's sure he'll have a great time with you.
6. You may develop feelings
One bad thing about having sex with your ex is that you may think that having sex will solve all your problems solved.
You can develop feelings for the man who broke up with you and let you down.
And if you're just thinking about going back to him, you're already lost.
Well, you better pay attention and think twice about what you really want and how he's feeling na related to sex.
7. Sex with your ex is not closure
Don't think that by having sex with your ex you have solved all the problems you both had and that you can put an end to it .
It takes a lot more than just great sex to solve all problems between two people, and don't forget that.
If you really want to sleep with him, do that, but don't think that something will change. Just think about why you broke up the first time.
8. You can have false hopes and end up getting hurt
If you have sex with your ex, you risk some things.
You might think that it would be great to be with him again because you guys get along so well and you could start daydreaming about him.
And what do you end up with? A broken heart and feeling unworthy.
Is that what you really want from your love life? That's what I thought!
Katharina Hansen
She is a trained psychologist and a talented author. For her, every person matters and every life story is unique. That's why her advice comes not only from her knowledge, but also from her heart.
