The biggest problem with a toxic relationship is that you not necessarily aware that you are in one.
You get used to being mistreated because little by little it becomes part of your life.
There can be happy moments (when the one who treats you badly is in the 'mood' for it) which causes you to forget the bad moments that have happened and will happen.
Toxic relationships are addictive.You can't end this relationship because you have some kind of security.
You have someone who claims to be kissing you. mumbles – someone who should take care of you.
But you don't know any better, and that's why you're staying with him.
Toxic relationships are challenging. You believe that it is your job to find your own happiness in this relationship.
You think that nothing just falls out of the sky and that it is your duty to making the relationship work.
There's no harm in trying to make things right, but remember, you must fight for someone worth fighting for.
People who treat you badly don't deserve you fighting over them.
Toxic relationships are all about fear.
The most women still think being in a dysfunctional relationship is better than being single.
They don't have the courage to free themselves from their tormentors.
However, some of them actually find the courage to break free from the chains of their toxic relationship, only to encounter the next obstacle.
You meet someone new and all, what is actually normal in a relationship is way outside of their comfort zone.
You are used to being treated badly.
Here are a few things that can happen to you ;nice when you meet a good guy after someone you felt like crap with:
1. You will have the space and support to learn to love yourself
The first thing you need to learn is to learn to love yourself love.
You must trust yourself because no one else can know what is good for you.
You are the only person who knows and controls this part of your life .
Dating a good guy will give you the right conditions to become the self-loving woman you need to become.
Once you've done that, then you're ready to take the next step.
2. You will find new ”weird” Getting to know feelings
You've suffered enough and now that you've met a good guy, seize the opportunity and don't give up.
Embrace your positive and healthy relationship instead of being afraid of new feelings.
All these feelings are meant to be and that's something you don't understand, not yet.
Don't be afraid to let go, because this man understands that you can go through hell and back ;returned.
3. You will expect the same experiences
You have lost faith in people.
After being treated like shit, you are afraid to to be treated like that again.
When you enter a new relationship you can't shake the feeling that he is just like the man before him.
For you it is impossible to imagine that there is someone who won't treat you badly.
You chose a man who didn't deserve you and now that you're experiencing the exact opposite (you'll get the love you deserve), you can not explaining why you stayed in your toxic relationship.
4. You will overanalyze everything
He treats you the way you deserve to be treated, but something is bothering you.
You cannot accept the fact that he is acting this way because he cares about you.< /p>
You overanalyze things and look for hidden motivations. But there aren't.
Most likely, you're standing back and looking at things from a different perspective, just to reassure yourself that he doesn't mean to hurt you.
Hopefully you will then realize that there are no hidden motivations and that his love for you is pure and long-term.
5. You think it's too good to be true
You can't shake the feeling that at any moment something is going to go wrong in your relationship.
You expect him to drop his mask. Maybe he’ll let go of his “everything is great” mask and show his true colors.
But he stays the way he is – full of understanding, patience and ready to love you.
There is absolutely no reason not to trust him, but your wounds have not healed yet.
This will take time and he is aware of it.
6. You're waiting for the “catastrophe”
In toxic relationships, arguments come out of nowhere.
But even now you can't relax because you keep feeling that a fight is about to start.
Fighting and abuse have been part of your everyday life and you are so used to them. Don't you expect it to happen.
You can't understand that he's not like that.
He's different and you're confused because you're thinking of a completely different scenario are used to.
7. You will apologize very often
Because of the constant conflicts in your previous relationship, you were used to apologizing to everyone all the time.
You apologized to your partner just to calm him down and to avoid a conflict.
You apologized for the things you did wrong and the things you didn't do wrong.
8. You will learn to trust him
Over time you will get used to being treated well – the treatment you deserve- and you will begin to trust your husband completely.
You realize that he doesn't want to hurt you and never will.
Slowly you will show him your vulnerable side because you are finally sure that he will never hurt you.
You will understand what true love is.
You will finally ;understand what it means to love someone who loves you back, who deserves you and who respects you.
Don't give up!