Maybe you didn't think something like this would ever happen, but here you are, wondering if you stay with him or try your luck elsewhere.
And you brood and brood, but you can't think of anything sensible. It's not easy to admit your own mistakes and you wonder if this relationship was a mistake.
On the one hand you still love him, but on the other hand his behavior has hurt you deeply.
Here are a few painful signs that it's time to give him up that will help you find the best solution.
I hope it will be eye-opening to see that these things happen every day but you just didn't want to see them all the time.
1. It makes you doubt yourself
If your partner doesn't accept you for who you are and you start doubting yourself in your relationship, it's time to give him up.
A man who really loves you would accept you with all your flaws and he would never ask you to change.
But if you are not comfortable with yourself; and feel like you're not good enough, something needs to change.
You can try to talk to him about your feelings, but if he wants to does not change, then everything else is in vain.
2. You walk on eggshells when you're with him
Do you feel like you need to be careful what you say or do in front of your partner? Are you afraid that if you do something he doesn’t like, he will freak out?
If the answer is “yes” is, then you should consider where you are now and whether you want to be at the same point in a few years.
You can't put your life on hold just to make it happy. make him happy, and he can't be the number one priority in your life all the time.
Has he ever done that for you? No, I know. So why would you sacrifice yourself for a man who couldn't care less about you?
3. He humiliates you in front of other people
He says he's just kidding, but in reality the joke hurts you. deeply. Somehow he always says something that you don't find nice in front of others and he never shows that he cares about you.
By putting you down, he feels dominating and like he's wearing the pants in the relationship.
You have to tell him that what he is doing is not nice at all and that he needs to pull himself together if he wants to stay with you.
4. Nothing you do is good enough for him
Do you know how it feels to never be good enough for a man? who is your whole world No matter what you do, nothing is good enough for him and he always wants something better.
Maybe it's time you sit down and think about your feelings for him. You may not like his behavior either, but you just don't want to be alone.
I guarantee you – it's better to be alone than to be in a lousy and toxic relationship. I'm sure by the end you'll figure out what's best for you.
5. He doesn't care about you
Do you feel like he lives his own life without sharing it with you?
Do you feel like there's no fire left in your relationship and that he's completely lost interest in you?
If these thoughts are running through your mind, it's about time to give him up because he obviously isn't giving you what you crave.
And if you think you'll never meet someone new, someone who appreciates you, then you're lying quite wrong.
A man will come who will appreciate you. But as you know, good things don't happen overnight.
6. You beg for his love
When you have to beg for the love and affection that goes with any normal relationship, then that relationship just isn't worth it anymore.
If you are the only one who loves, makes an effort and tries, then there is no point in continuing this relationship.
When a man sees that you need him and distances himself from you, it is a sign that something is wrong and that you would be better off without him.
7. You hope he will change
If you suffer in silence and hope that he will change, then this relationship is not fighting worth it.
Obviously your husband doesn't value you and will do whatever he wants without even giving a thought to what you're going to say.
And then when you find out what a mess he did to hurt you, you forgive him because you still love him and you pray to God that he changes.
< p>Honey, let me tell you something: He will never change. If you let him, he will continue to fool you without any remorse.
8. Your gut tells you something is wrong
You know, that little voice inside you that's always telling you what's wrong and what's not? What is she telling you now? Nothing nice, am I right?
Probably saying he's not worth fighting for anymore and that you should leave him and find someone who will make you truly happy.
She's telling you to give up the man who gave up on you long ago and think about yourself.
If I were you, I would I listen to that voice because it's never wrong!