While relationships should be easy and beautiful, most of the time they are very complicated and don't make sense.
Your partner hurts you, but you keep trying to talk to them about it to make it better. Is it really worth it?
Well, if you believe in soul mates, you wouldn't want to lose the one person in your life you've been looking for by giving them up just like that, would you?
Relationships take hard work and a lot trouble. But let's face it, there are clear signs that a relationship is over.
In order to know if a relationship is really over, it's important to try a few things to make sure to be.
You don't want to regret letting go of someone who loves you without even asking what happened.
1. Communication
Again and again I mention communication as a kind of holy grail for solving all problems in life.
If you ask your partner what's going on, why he doesn't talk to you, why he doesn't reply to your texts and then he reacts in a mean way or doesn't want to talk about it at all – leave him He doesn't deserve you.
But if he has a good reason for his behavior, like his job that doesn't let him breathe, try to communicate with him, try to tell him how much it would mean to you if he took the time would take for you to talk to you, call you, text you back.
If he doesn't change his behavior, let him know that you won't repeat yourself.
There is no need to worry about someone who doesn't respect you and your needs.
2. No contact
If communication isn't working, try to distance yourself completely to see what will happen.
If he notices that you're a little different than usual and that you are no longer there for him, he will start to wonder what he did wrong and he will try to make things right.
If he doesn't see you the same day calls where you distanced yourself, I don't think you have to wait any longer.
You deserve more than just staring at a blank screen.
3. What made you fall in love with him?
Ask yourself the following questions: What made you fall in love with him? What brought you together?
Go back to the beginning of your relationship and think about what was so attractive about him at the time.
If he's completely changed, then he's not the person you fell in love with, so why try to make him back to what you used to be?
Me my, of course, people change, they become a better version of themselves every day, but let's be honest – when he's a whole new person, he's not who you want to be with anymore.
4. Try something new
If communication is good but the relationship is just getting boring and you can't find anything interesting to do together anymore, try something new.
Try something neither of you have done before did before, and then analyze the situation.
If you feel refreshed and that the relationship can move forward without being called into question, then you have great; great job!
If you've never been on vacation together, go now! Pack your things and have fun!
5. Recognize the problem
Well, we all suffer from certain things that happened in our past.
If you've seen many marriages and relationships fall apart this might be something you are used to and there really is no way to unlearn something that was instilled in you from a young age.
Also, the people around you can affect the way you react to events in your relationship.
Reassure yourself that the feelings you are having are real are yours, and not the feelings or behavior of anyone you have encountered.
Once you have the answer, you should be able to identify the problem.
Why do you feel like you are not loved or that the relationship is over? Can this be changed?
If the answer is no, there isn't much that can be done.
6. Slow down
It's very important to relax from time to time and see what's happening.
Look at the relationship from a whole perspective different perspective and try to understand what is happening.
Take time to observe the situation and take care of yourself.
We get carried away by emotions and don't take the time to to analyze them. Now might be the right time.
7. It's not your job to save the relationship
The most important lesson of all time! It is not your responsibility to save the relationship.
Notice what will happen if you sit down and give yourself time to think.
Maybe is for the best The solution is to leave him and move on, but it could also just be a phase that you both have to go through.
Just remember that you can't save what is already lost.
