Letting go of someone you still love is probably the hardest thing you'll ever do.
Even so you have to do it to move on with your life and be happy.
Before you take this step, you should think about whether you really want to do this and act accordingly.
I'm not going to fool you or tell you that it won't hurt that much.
Because it will. But you can do it.
If you're not sure how to start, here are a few things that can make things a lot easier for you.
1. Stick to your decision
The very first thing you have to do is stick to your decision.
You can't say today that you're going to let someone go and then just change your mind tomorrow.
You'll only hurt yourself more that way.
Once you see there's no turning back there, you should burn down any bridges between the two of you.
And that means you must have no contact with that person.
Don't check his social media profiles, don't call him or reply to his messages.
You have to pretend he doesn't exist.
It's the only way you can get over him without adding stress and heartache.
2. Don't give second chances
People in love do crazy things. They do things they would never otherwise do.
For love, they let other people bully them.
But what they don't understand is that love isn't supposed to hurt.
It's supposed to help you feel comfortable in your own skin.
And if you don't If that's how you feel then you should let her go.
Let her go and the only reason you should look back is to see how far you've come came.
The golden rule is that you shouldn't give second chances to people who don't deserve it.
And please don't let nostalgia and any sweet memories fool you.
If you give someone who doesn't respect you a second chance, sooner or later you'll be back for it cry to him.
Therefore, you should remain determined that nothing can stop you from leaving him.
3. Respond to the situation
The worst thing you can do is drink your emotions inside you.
That's really the last thing you should do. If you feel bad, show it.
Just do what you want to do. If you want to talk to someone about it, do it.
If you don't want to, take some time for yourself.
Do anything that makes you feel better feel.
Accept the fact that each day will make you feel different.
Each day will be like a new chapter, in you have to learn how to behave.
You will have to come to terms with the new situation and learn to manage on your own.
There will be certain things that you will change about yourself and you will realize that you need to make those changes ;should have made changes sooner.
But it's all part of this process and your new beginning.
4. You can't stop loving someone overnight
It's perfectly fine to still have feelings for people who are no longer a part of your life, especially if they really meant a lot to you.
If you still love your ex, you need to know that it's perfectly normal to feel this way.
Getting over it will be a long process, but it will be worth it.
You need to take your time give someone to let go, because you can't do something like that in a minute or two.
It can take weeks or even months.
And when you think you've finally let him go, you realize that you still have feelings for him.
So, give yourself enough time to let him go.< /p>
There can be no rush in such things.
It just has to happen by itself. That's the only way it can work.
5. Forgive him, but forgive yourself
One more thing you need to do to move on is forgive him.
But if you forgive him, you must also forgive yourself. You're wondering why?
You should forgive yourself for holding on to something that wasn't real for a long time.
Forgive yourself even for all the times you put that person first, for all the sleepless nights and for taking you for granted.
And only then can you forgive that person for all the pain they caused you, because that's the only way to move forward.
And once you've finally done that, you'll see that you're much better off without him.
6. Surround yourself with people you love
That's why it's really important to spend a lot of time with your friends and family.
They will be with you be so you don't think about your loss so much.
They know exactly what you are going through and they will be able to act accordingly.
As nice as it is to have good people around when life is good it's also important to have them with you when things aren't going so well.
Just be with them, talk to them and have fun. together.
Trust me, this is the best way to get over someone and accept everything that happens in your life.
7. Be strong enough to move on with your life
Once you have gone through all the stages of the grieving phase, you will be able to move on.
It is important that you do so without being involved in any kind of romantic relationship.
If you looking for someone to comfort you, or just to not be alone, you are only making a bigger mistake.
However, when you face your fear and reality alone, that makes you stronger.
Through this experience you will learn that you can always count on yourself and that you should put yourself first.
It will be hard, but it will be worth it.
When you finally learn how to move on and how to be content with your life on your own, you will be truly happy .
And after this painful experience you will learn not to make wrong decisions anymore or at least to recognize the warning signs if you end up with someone again t who didn't deserve you.