The common realization you've come to come when a guy isn't after you is that he's not interested in you.
And believe me, in most cases that's more than true.
I know that you've probably had enough of rejection and disappointment and that you don't want to chase after anyone because part of you thinks you might be rejected.
So you just give up and you know what, you're right!
I'm not a feminist and I'm not saying you have to lie down and do absolutely nothing.
I'm just saying that you should keep whatever dignity you have left and wait for the right man to come to you.
Wait for the one worthy of you. Wait for the one who really likes you for you, the one who cares about you.
If he really cares about you and is interested, he will find a way to get your attention, and one day you'll be glad you didn't do anything to initiate the pursuit.
So, read on to see why you should never chase a guy and leave him behind instead be after you:
1. It takes a lot of time
So first of all, if he likes you, he needs to be sure that he does.
He can't like you one moment and be indecisive the next. So chasing after him is out of the question.
Don't let anyone play the untouchable because you deserve someone who can't wait to be in your company, someone who wants to spend their free time with you.
2. It hurts your self-esteem
Chasing after a guy who isn't interested in you can really hurt your self-esteem.
I know it doesn't seem like a big deal, but when you see a guy really like, it's a big deal to be rejected and hurt.
Pushing after someone who doesn't care makes you feel worthless and won't give you their attention earn.
Well, that's just not true. You deserve better than that.
3. He doesn't want to be caught
Okay, so if you have to chase after a guy, it usually means he doesn't want to be caught because he probably has a commitment issue and you don't want to get involved in this.
This type of relationship will only harm you and nothing less.
He will pay attention to you at the beginning, but once the relationship becomes more serious , he will distance himself because he doesn't want to commit.
And again, you don't need a man to chase after.
4. He's not the one
If you have to chase after him, he's not the one for you.
It should be the other way around. Love shouldn't be that complicated.
Love should be simple, between two people who met and fell in love instantly.
There shouldn't be any playing around with emotions or with each other, everything should be easy.
So if you catch yourself chasing someone, you have to ask yourself if they really care enough about you to make you chase them.
5. You forget your friends
Chasing takes up a lot of your time and you start obsessing over this guy.
It consumes you and can take up all your time.
So it's not uncommon for you to forget your friends in the process – you start ignoring them because all your attention is on why you can't have him and what's going on in his head.
Well, nobody is more important than your friends and family and you should never neglect them, especially for someone who probably doesn't care that much about you.
6. Maybe he just wants sex
There is a chance to get the man you chased, but only because he wanted you to chase him – and why?
Probably just to have sex.
Because, let's face it, men who don't want to be followed aren't men who commit want, so it's only logical that if they decide to get caught, they're only doing it to get one thing.
When things get boring, they leave.
< h2>7. You're doomed to a one-sided love
As I said before, even if you get it, you won't be happy.
It will likely to be a relationship where you will try to solve all problems and will always be the one to blame when something doesn't work.
You will be the one who loves and he will be the one who's there because he has nothing better to do.
Are you sure you want to chase after men and risk getting your heart broken? I don't think so.