There's an old saying that people are afraid of being alone. I know I don't know if that's true, but from my point of view I can say that it's better to be alone than in bad company.
If you think hard about all the factors affecting your relationship with a affect another person, then you will find that you are risking too much.
Especially when we are talking about romantic relationships.
So the question is, ”Why do people always attract the negative person that makes their life miserable?”
”Why can't we just be happy and enjoy life?”
Frankly, I have had so many underground relationships in my life that I don’t want to go through all the pain again. And I proudly say that I'm not afraid of being single, I'm afraid of dating.
I have my reasons, which I'll explain to you below.
1. I'm not afraid of sleeping alone-I'm afraid of sleeping with the wrong man
It's no big deal if I go to bed alone. It might make me a little sad at certain moments in my life, but right now I'm totally fine with it.
I don't want to lie up all night lying next to someone, der I don't care.
2. I'm not afraid of eating alone-I'm afraid of wasting my time with the wrong person
I know it's rude to eat and talk at the same time, but when I go out to dinner with you, I expect a little small talk.
Otherwise, I could just put my headphones on and enjoy my meal alone with my favorite song. And my bill wouldn't be that high at the end of the month either.
3. I'm not afraid of making love-I'm afraid of bad sex
I don't want a man who doesn't give a damn about me. I don’t want a ”doll” be that satisfies his needs. When I make love to someone, it has to be perfect. My satisfaction is more important to me than my orgasm.
4. I'm not afraid of going to weddings alone—I'm afraid of having an awful wedding myself
Do you know that feeling when you have been invited to a wedding but have no companion? Well, I've been puzzled about this for a long time, but now I don't have a problem with it.
At least I'll enjoy the music, dancing and flirting – and there will be no narcissistic man by my side to make me feel like a piece of shit.
5. I'm not afraid of being myself- I'm afraid of being with someone who makes me feel like I can't be myself
I open up my heart really full when i am in a relationship. And if a man keeps interrupting me when I want to say something, then I don't think we have a bright future ahead of us. It's definitely better to be alone than in bad company!
6. I'm not afraid of being cold-I'm afraid of being vulnerable
It's better to constantly dress like a “drama queen” perform than just adapting to everything and ending up heartbroken. The people who have felt the pain of being brutally dropped have no choice but to agree with me wholeheartedly.
7. I'm not afraid of being alone—I'm afraid of dating
All of you who have had bad first dates know what I'm talking about. I don’t want to twiddle my thumbs and wait for you to cum.
I don’t want to change my clothes 10 times for someone who doesn’t care about my appearance interested.
I don't want to stay up all night waiting for you to call me. I don’t want to ruin my life for someone who doesn’t deserve even the smallest part of me.
I would rather spend my whole life single than with someone who doesn’t want me gives what i need. What's the point of living like this?
I'm happy with myself.
I don't feel bad in a crowded room full of people, that I don't know.
I'm comfortable in my own skin and will stay that way until the ”right one” crosses paths that are interested in me!