You fall in love. You feel like you're on cloud nine. You don't think about your problems anymore. You have your pink glasses on and the only thing on your mind is him.
Then, in the blink of an eye, you start feeling something you've never felt before .
You feel like your husband is not the same as before and you can't shake this ugly feeling.
Does that sound familiar?
Well, that happens in many relationships and women around the world would be dying to hear any advice that could help them solve this problem.
So if your husband is one of those guys who stopped showering you with attention and you feel bad about it, then here are some things you can do:
1. Leave him alone for a while
The worst thing you can do is press him to tell you what's wrong with him. You only make it worse that way. Instead, leave him alone. Yes, you heard me right.
Leave him alone so he can think about his life and the things he wants. Don't blame him.
Don't call him, text him and most importantly don't meet him if he's not ready.
< p>The thing is that you can't actually influence his decision so it's better if you leave him alone because he knows what's best for him.
2. When he comes back, act like a friend, not an enemy
It is true that the things that happen to him are not your fault, but as his Soulmates you need to be there for him in his good moments and in his bad moments. Especially the bad ones.
So if something like this happened to him, don't jump to conclusions and be smart. You won't get anywhere by talking to him like an enemy.
Instead, talk to him like a friend and tell him that you understand that he was having a crisis, but that you also wanted to help him.
That way he will know that next time something bad happens to him, he can count on you.
3. Once it's back into "normal mode" changes, ask him why he did it
When your guy decides that you are the one he wants to be with, you need to ask him why he did it.
You deserve answers and you should you receive. You're the one who had to wonder why he did it and how you can help him.
You're the one who spent sleepless nights staring at a blank screen and hoping that he will call.
I'm not saying he didn't suffer, but you suffered too, especially since you didn't know what happened.
So you have every right to ask him why he did it and why he didn't allow you to help him.
If he loves you, he will be open about everything, and if he tells you he doesn't want to talk about it, you should think twice about dating a man who can't trust you.
4. Remember that even when he's not around, you have a life
If your husband has decided to retire, that doesn't mean you have to just focus on him.
Focus on yourself and on your life, especially when you're not sure if he'll ever come back.
You can't stay sleepless over a man who doesn't want you to know anything about him. You can't help him if he doesn't let you. Be patient enough and live your life normally.
When he comes back you can talk about what happened to him and decide if there is a future together.
Any problem can be solved if there is a will is.
Well, in the end it's up to him if he will come back or not, and it's up to you if you will cry yourself to sleep every night or if you will live the life to be proud of.
5. Always put yourself first no matter how much you love him
It's bad when your husband withdraws, but that's no reason for you to stop talking shit’ giving up on anything.
You should always put yourself first, no matter how much you love him.
It's okay to help him if he wants to, but worrying about someone who doesn't know about you is not a good idea.
It will only hurt you and, trust me, you don't want that to happen.
If he's having problems, try to be with him when he lets you. It's a way of showing him that you love him and that he can always count on you.
But if he does that from time to time, you shouldn't put up with it. You should take care of yourself if he isn't the one doing it.
You should be the cause of your own happiness and not him. Only when you understand that will you be truly happy.