If a man leaves you, then he will your whole world collapses in on itself. You feel rejected and alone.
We have all experienced that terrifying feeling and the healing process that follows.
But what if would happen if you could get one step ahead of the man who is going to break your heart?
What would happen if you could foresee that he was going to leave you?
There would be no heartbreak even if you really loved him.
Because at some point you would realize that he was playing mind games with you as an excuse to have a to find a breakup.
He's probably a weak coward who isn't man enough to tell you straight to your face that he wants to end the relationship.
So he resorts to the most disgusting and cowardly way to escape the mess he's in – he plays mind games with you and tries to convince you that you were the problem all along so he can walk away clean and innocent.
Most women will only then realize that they were taken advantage of in their relationship after it's over.
Then they analyze what happened and realize that the things that happened weren't their fault.
They loved the man who was taking advantage of them so much that they couldn't tell anything was wrong.
They failed to realize that things shouldn't be the way they were.
Even if they realized something was wrong, they wouldn't have admitted it to themselves or the perfect dream world they were living in would have collapsed.
< p>Sometimes it's easier to ignore the truth than to face it and suffer the consequences.
That's why it's important that you take an objective look at your life.
Ignore the fact that you are in love, because love will blind you and you will then see nothing as it really is.
Maybe because you don't want to or just can't.
There are many different ways men play with women.
As we are all different, so are our actions. Different things affect us, different things hurt us.
Emotional psychopaths and men who play games with people as if they were just objects and not human beings are smart enough to knowing exactly where they can hurt us the most.
These men do it because they want to break up with you and make it seem like it's all your fault.
Here are some of the mind games they play to get what they want and to draw a clear line under the relationship.
1. He flirts with other women
He could give many reasons why he does it. But the most common reason is because he just wants your attention and because he wants to make you jealous – which is also wrong.
However, there may be another reason why he is doing this.
He wants to give you a subtle hint that that he wants to end your relationship soon.
Thing is, if you ask him why he's doing this, he won't tell you why directly.
He will probably lie and portray himself as a victim, so you'll feel sorry for him and leave him alone.
He'll probably tell you that you don't care about him and that he feels lonely, when the truth is that he is fed up with you and wants to leave you soon.
And when he has left you, then you will feel like a piece feeling dirt because you think it was all your fault and that you should have loved him more.
2. He makes you feel guilty
He will make you feel like you are completely worthless.
No matter how much you feel no matter how hard you try to make your relationship work, he will find a way to disapprove of your behavior.
He will blame you for everything that goes wrong.
Even if you are not in a good mood and pull yourself together for him, he will provoke you to drive you insane so that he can be the victim again and you are the culprit.
He will do this every day either because he wants to break up with you or because he wants you to break up with him so he doesn't have to be the one to end the relationship.
The best thing you can do in such a situation is to have no contact with him and just leave him.
While that gives him the satisfaction that he didn't break up with you and got rid of you, it still isn't worth your emotional breakdown.
3. He'll be lying to you all the time
He's probably having an affair, which is so transparent. You just know that he is cheating on you and that he is doing it on purpose.
He wants you to know because he is preparing for a breakup.
< p>But the crazy thing is that he will lie to justify his intentions because he doesn't want to appear as the bad guy, even though he wants you to know that he doesn't love you anymore.
He'll lie about where he's been and with whom – even if you smell another woman's perfume on him. He'll deny everything.
Don't stay with him to find out what's going to happen.
Don't give him another chance because he doesn't deserve it and probably doesn't want it either .
Don't let him abuse you with his lies and make a fool of you. Never show him that his blatant lies can harm you and just end it all.
And if he asks why, which a mind-playing psycho like him will most definitely do, then just say "Therefore". Don't give him the satisfaction of seeing how hurt you are.
4. He will gaslight you
This is the supreme discipline of manipulation. This is the meanest and most powerful mind game technique out there.
The gaslighting technique is a form of emotional abuse in which the abuser repeatedly manipulates situations to make you feel pretend you're crazy.
He will pick a situation and say one thing and do the complete opposite.
After that he will convince you that you got it all wrong and that he never said what you think he said (or did what you think he did).
< p>You can get out of this situation by making notes.
Although you cannot write down everything that happens in your life, after a while the situations will repeat themselves and when that happens, then make a note of what he said or promised you and compare your notes to what he ended up doing.
You will realize that he is the problem and not you. He plays mind games with you so that after your breakup he will have the excuse that you are completely insane and that he had no choice but to leave you.< /p>
5. He provokes you
He will provoke you to make you angry and eventually use that anger against yourself.
No matter how calm you may be, after constant verbal and emotional provocation, you will eventually lose your temper and blow your mind.
And that's what he wanted from the start. Since he has known you long enough, he knows he knows exactly what makes you angry and he will use that against you.
Once you are angry he will play the victim and make things look different.
So you realize that this manipulation is the perfect cover for a breakup because only you can be the culprit.
You are constantly angry and screaming.
On the surface, that's true, but if you analyze the situation more closely, you'll see that he planned the chaos and is responsible for the overall situation.
And all that just because he didn't have enough guts to break up with you like a man.
He acted like an immature mama's boy, like a real coward.
You don't deserve a coward, you deserve a real man.