No girl wants to be perceived as clingy or needy.
The last thing she wants is to ask for your love and attention because let's be honest – that would come off really desperate.
Therefore she will never mention some little things she would like to get or experience from you.
That's all Things that don’t require much effort, but will help you make your girl happy.
But you're not a mind reader and you can't know what your girlfriend wants unless she says it out loud, right?
Well, that's why we're here to present you with the 4 things that every girlfriend secretly expects from her boyfriend but will never ask for.
1. Cuddling her without it having to lead to sex
Women enjoy sex just as much as men do – there's no doubt about that.
But sometimes there are other intimate things a couple can do besides having sex.
Sometimes we just want to cuddle without it leading to anything else or feeling obligated to say anything in return.
Trust me -; your girlfriend wants you to kiss her passionately out of nowhere.
She loves falling asleep in your arms and she loves the way she feels protected when you hold her in your arms until she falls asleep.
She will enjoy it when you hold her hand or gently touch her hair.
She's happy to see you show her any kind of affection because it's for us that's a sign that you care about us and that you see us as more than just a sexual object.
But she'll probably never ask you to do any of those things directly because she's waiting for you to do it yourself.
2. To surprise you
Not all girls will expect you to buy them expensive gifts or take them out on a fancy date.
You don't need to spoil them with a candlelit dinner or a bubble bath every other night ü Surprise.
You don't need big romantic gestures imitating a cheesy romantic comedy.
But every girl enjoys little surprises, especially if it's something special for both of you.
We're glad to know that you thought of us, even if it's not our birthday or anniversary.
We love to know that you paid attention when we told you a few months ago, that we like that one pair of shoes, or if you were thinking of getting us a book by our favorite author.
Remember – every effort counts. Your girl will be more than happy if you bring her breakfast to bed on a Sunday morning or invite her to her favorite band's concert.
3. Express your feelings
The fact is that women are known to be much more expressive than men.
But that doesn't mean that we don’t enjoy hearing our better half talk about her feelings for us.
No, she won’t make you any less of a man when you tell her you love her.
She will not use your weaknesses against you. Instead, she will be more than happy to see that you have started opening up to her.
So please, don't be afraid to express your feelings to your girlfriend.
It doesn't mean that you have to tell her how much you love her every day or that you have to be overly romantic – make her feel loved and wanted at all times.
4. Make them a part of your life
Your girl knows that you need your space. She knows you had a life ahead of her and she has no intention of spending every second of her free time with you.
But it's nice when she feels that you do need to make her a part of your life.
It's nice when she sees that you would like to introduce her to your family or ask her to come with you every now and then hanging out with your friends.
She wants to belong to you and she wants to be accepted.
Of course, your girl will never ask that of you, because the last thing she wants is for you to feel like she's suffocating you.
She doesn't want to feel like she's forcing you to do anything , which you don't want to do, but she will definitely feel emotionally neglected if you don't make an effort and integrate her into your daily life.
