Workplace is a great place to meet some great people, and some people even meet their best friend or Soulmates at work.
But to do that, one must first know the difference between being simply polite, friendly, or flirtatious.
Due to professionalism or company policy of prohibiting relationships between employees, this can be very difficult.
For this reason, it is very important to be cautious when considering dating a colleague.
It can seem quite unprofessional or disrespectful to company policy if to enter into a relationship with a colleague.
And when things are finally over, it can be really hard and painful to have to look at him every day.
But if you still feel like it and are already looking for signs that a staff member is looking at you then this article is for you.
Or if you just want to try and avoid that awkward situation where he confesses his love to you and you give a little less than nothing feel it.
In any case, you'll find that it's not all that difficult to figure out once you know what to look for, and there are many signs that can tell the truth about whether an employee is looking for you like.
1. He talks to you more than to the others
There are a few reasons for this. He likes you, he needs something from you (maybe you to fill in for him) or if you're just starting out, he may just want to be polite so you don't feel left out for him. hlst or something.
But the most important thing is to pay attention to other characters from the list as well and to the topics you two are talking about.
If it's a bit persö If your work tool is similar or basically unimportant, it could be that he is just looking for a way to spend time with you.
2. He smiles at you in meetings
Every time you look at him, he smiles at you.
When you are giving a presentation or speaking, he encourages you and supports you in what you are saying.
You can even catch him looking at you and at the same moment looked the other way.
That's usually the number one sign that someone likes you because they just can't help it.
Just you. looking at it makes him happy and puts a smile on his face.
And if he can't help it in meetings, it means he's genuinely interested in you.
3. He brings you coffee
Without asking, he remembers what kind of coffee you love and he brings it to you regularly, with some flowers that he finds somewhere along the way, or candy bars and lollipops.
If you run out of office supplies, he'll bring some for you so you don't have to worry about them.
You may think he does this for everyone, or at least every woman in the building, but watch his behavior around you.
If he suddenly gets nervous When he stands in front of your desk and seems clumsy around you, it's because he wants to be perfect for you, which puts pressure on him and thus makes him nervous and clumsy.
And he gets so upset, confused and blushing that it's so adorable it actually makes you sick. A little.
4. He wants to know how your day away from the office went
It's such that men who are only interested in your washing or getting anything else from you will never ask about your day.
Or if they do, they won't really pay attention to the answer.
You know that kind of man, you talk to him and you can actually see that he's so absent-minded that nothing you say gets through to his head.
And his only reaction is : “Yes, great. So what about what I talked to you about?”
But if he asks you and is genuinely interested in what you have to say and he actually goes into things remembers you say he's interested in you.
Well, he's just a catch.
A man who listens and cares about the things you are talking about is a man worth spending time with.
5. He takes you on lunch dates
Any man who takes me out to lunch is my type of man!
Remember About after, you can eat as much as you want, the food is all over your face and he still looks at you like you're a godsend, Aphrodite herself. That's what true love is all about.
But seriously now. He wants to pick you up from the office for lunch because it's difficult to feel comfortable and relaxed when you're at work.
When you're told by your bosses and other co-workers around you there is no way you could be relaxed and interested in a bit of cheeky chatting.
He wants you to relax so you can get to know each other better and maybe a arrange another date.
Who knows. The way to a woman's heart is through her stomach.
Or was it the other way around?
6. He sits next to you in meetings
It may seem like something that happens randomly, but trust me, it doesn't.
And if it does there are other characters from the list in his case, boy, he's seriously into you!
It's a perfect way for him to get as close to you as possible and maybe accidentally touch your leg with his.
Or hit your throat while you're talking as a sign of support.
He definitely wants to be around you so he can show you that he is there for you, that you have his support no matter what.
Isn't that adorable? (Unless he's a creep)
7. He accidentally touches you
He bumps into you in the hallways and during lunch break he always touches your hand quickly and gently.
Unless you have really narrow and small hallways or he is not incredibly clumsy, which I don't think is the case, they are incredibly attracted to you.
When we are attracted to someone, our bodies are attracted too.
< p>It's something we can't really control, nor who we fall in love with.
But hey, at least there's something interesting to do on a boring day at the office.
8. He offers to help you with your work
No matter how busy he is, he always has time to drop by your desk to see how you are doing and if you need help.
He offers to carry heavy things for you, fix the printer or help with anything you need to do.
And he respects it when you say no to him because he's not trying to show you how, or that he can do it better than you.
He wants you simply helping because it makes him feel good. And that way he can be even closer to you.
On the other hand, if he insults you and is mean to you after you have refused his help, you should stay away from him.
He might be looking for a quick way to get in your way or prove he's better than you.
This is not a man who can give you the healthy relationship you deserve.
9. He will defend you in front of employees
He is very protective when it comes to you.
Even if he offers to walk you to your car bring, or stand up for you in meetings, or if someone puts you down, he is your knight in shining armor defending your honor.
What I love about it is that it really shows the kind of man he is.
He could be chilling and let them talk bad about you while he's banging his head nods and doesn't do anything.
Instead, he will defend you, even if they attack him or if that means your anger will be his, too.
And if that's him does not make a real knight, knowsß I don't know what it does.
10. He gives you funny nicknames
Ah yes, the nickname game. Men love to tease and be teased.
It can be a friendly tease, but let's face it ladies. We can tell the difference.
There's a difference in the way he jokes with you and what kind of nicknames he gives you.
If it's friendly , there is no chemistry and you will see long looks and smiles.
But if it's more than just friendship, he'll blush and stutter while he's joking with you.
And there's that split second when you catch him looking at you while he's talking. while he tells a joke and waits for your reaction, completely uncovered and vulnerable, just before he masks it with another smile and a silly joke.
In that moment you have the full one Power over your relationship.
Whether you want to end it now or deepen it is entirely up to you.
11. He remembers your birthday and special events
Honestly, I'm always the one who forgets birthdays and special events.
It lies not that I don't care, it's just that I have serious trouble remembering important things.
But it's really great that I remember what happened in the eighth episode happened in Season 3 of Game of Thrones.
But if I'm into someone and want to show them that I'm interested, I can actually remember everything.
And if I can't, I write it (hey, that still counts).
So if he remembers something you mentioned a few weeks ago and he asks you how it went, that's it a sign that he's into you.
And better yet, if he remembers your birthday is coming up and he asks about your plans, it could mean he has some plans of his own.
Or maybe he does surprised you with a gift of something you really love, like socks with cute little Nutella tins.
12. He praises you in front of other colleagues
„Hey, do you know who could do this perfectly? Her!
You know how well she did last month! "
The thing is, we all know when someone is saying something about us behind our back.
For good or bad, it always finds a way to us.
And when people come up to you and talk about how much he supports you and how he praised you or he is actually the reason why your boss recognized your work, the boy Hals ü ;crazy crush on you.
And he doesn't care if he made it too public by praising you, he only wants what's best for you and he's happy to help.
13. He's trying to find out your relationship status
Even if he never asked you directly, he asked about your weekend plans with, “Someone special?” Or he asked what you did last night and you could see he was relieved and happy when you said you were alone or with your cat.
You can see that he wants to ask you about it, but he is too polite or afraid of your answer.
Whatever the reason, in case you noticed that he does, now you know why he does it.
14. There's always something to talk about
He always has some new fun videos for you to watch and something to talk about.
< p>It doesn't matter how irrelevant it is, it seems to him that his life depends on it.
And he has no problem asking you for help with the most mundane things just so he can talk to you.
He is also interested in your life outside of work and wants his with you share.
15. His shifts suddenly match yours
You've noticed that he's at work at the same time as you, and the thing is, his shifts are earlier rarely matched yours.
It could be a coincidence, but if there are more signs from this list in his behavior, then it's pretty obvious that he's into you.
Also, if he's giving you a ride home or even his company if you work late, bingo!
He would kill to be your friend. Let's just hope not literally.
16. His body language tells you
The famous body language. There are so many clues his body is giving you subconsciously that once you know what to look for, they're really fun to look for.
He's squirming, for example ;quickly with his fingers and is always looking for an excuse to touch you (pushing hair away from face, patting on back, touching shoulder, etc.).
His body is also always aimed at you, to tell you that he is open to getting to know you better and that he wants to get closer to you.
Another great cue is when he mimics your moves.
If you cross your arms, he will cross his too.
And when you talk, you'll have his undivided attention.
It's almost as if the rest of the world has disappeared and you are the only one.
17. He's looking for excuses to see you outside of work
This is up to his imagination, but whatever the excuse, the reason is always the same.
He's so into you, he'll do anything just for you to see.
He'll forget his paperwork to get back to you, or there'll be a movie night or something at a bar he'll really want you to attend.
Or he'll suddenly remember a certain deadline on a task that he'd really appreciate your help with, and in return he'll buy you a drink.
Like I said , it depends on his ideas but you get my point.
18. He takes a break at the same time as you
No matter how much work he has left to do and even if it's not the time he usually takes a break, it fits she suddenly to yours.
And he's always so pleasantly surprised that you're there too; he was thinking of something funny to talk to you about.
He even offers to take you somewhere during the break, depending on how long it lasts.
And trust me, it never lasts long enough for him. Poor guy.
19. He always agrees with you on work related things
Having someone who always has your back is great.
Especially when you know ;t that he respects your opinion and knowledge of the subject, not just your looks.
There's a big difference between agreeing with everything you say and being willing to support you when it's needed.
A man who cares physically attracted to you, nods his head all the time and makes you feel like some kind of goddess.
But a man who in love with your brilliant mind and personality will support you when it matters most.
Nobody is perfect and we all make mistakes, but he always has your back no matter how badly you screw up or how well you do.
And he makes sure everyone else knows.< /p>
That's what really counts – someone who knows you're not perfect but still makes you feel like you are.
20. He asked you out
And the biggest and clearest sign of all – he asked you out.
Not for a group meeting or team bonding or margaritas with other coworkers after work.
He asked you out, just for both of you.
Maybe he didn't say the word ”date” used, but it's still one.
All that's left for me to do is wish you both all the luck in the world and congratulations on this date.
And who knows? Maybe it will have a happy ending!