You two broke up and suddenly he starts calling you regularly, sending you gifts and tries desperately to talk to you.
Or maybe he was the one who initiated the breakup in the first place and now he makes excuses just to get closer to you.
Why do men do this?
Why is it so hard for them to leave you alone when you're finally okay without them?
Maybe it was that's a rhetorical question.
Most of the time they won't leave you alone because they see that you're okay without them.
And men are very touchy when it comes.
They can't get over the fact that you don't need them and that you can be happy without them.
They want to feel wanted and sometimes they decide to just date you Tormenting spite and jealousy (especially when they hear you've met someone).
They turn into jealous psychos who lose control of themselves. And then they cross the border.
But there is another side.
Some men won't leave you alone because they still have feelings for you or they got let down by someone else and now they realized that you are the right person for them all along were.
This is really hard to accept and you have every right to be mad at him.
No one deserves to be a second choice and you should never give them the pleasure of letting them back into your life unless you are 100% sure they have changed.
Only then and exclusively then can you consider the option of giving him a second chance.
If he texts you all the time, pay attention to his writing style.
Do you think he may have changed in the meantime?
Do you feel like he really misses you and wants to go back?
Even if you see him, pay attention to his body language and always read between the lines and this will help you to find the real reason why he won't leave you alone.
1. He is lonely
Sometimes men decide to chase you just because they feel lonely.
They have everything with you divided when you two were together and now they have a hard time changing their routine.
They feel lonely and the first thing that comes to mind is, to write or call you.
He mistakes the feeling of loneliness for affection.
He starts to think that maybe he made a mistake letting you go, but he doesn't understand that this is just a phase he is going through must go through to recover from a breakup.
2. He wants sex
Another reason he won't leave you alone is because he wants to have sex with you.
Maybe even though you both kind of lost each other, the sex was still great and that's why the desire for sex remains.
Now you're thinking, if all he's into is sex, why doesn't he have someone else chosen instead of you And you're right about that.
He could have chosen to have sex with someone else, but obviously he wants you.
And if you take him back , then you should know that nothing will change, but you will just become friends with benefits.
3. He's bored
Sometimes there is no particular reason for his behavior and the excessive calls and texts you receive every day are just the result of his boredom.
I know; that it's hard to understand, but guys go crazy sometimes (especially when they have nothing concrete to do; no hobbies, work or any other kind of entertainment).
He will do the same if he sees on social media that you are having fun without himß you.
Because of this, he will get even more bored and this will be the trigger for him to contact you.
He will send you provocative messages, only to piss you off, because that's the only source of entertainment for him.
And if you get mad, he makes popcorn and enjoys watching you go crazy.
4. He knows you will give him a second chance
do you have limits Did you have boundaries while the two of you were together?
If he knows you're being too nice, he won't leave you so easily.
He will try to get a second chance from you just because he's sure you'll fall for his nice words and whatever he decides to tell you.
About that To avoid it, tell him exactly how you feel about it, and if you don't want him in your life anymore, let him know.
Repeat a few more times if necessary and I'm sure he'll understand what you're saying.
Don't give him a second chance just because he knows he can get it.
He shall fight hard to earn it.
5. He misses you
Sometimes he just can't leave you alone because he really misses you.
He misses the way you smiled, your kiss and even your little fights.
If your things and gifts are still at his house, he will miss you even more.
When we are attached to someone, every single thing that used to belong to that person will remind us of them.
It's really hard to shake that feeling , and no matter how hard he's tried to fight the urge to text you, he just won't manage it every time.
Night time is the most critical and when he texts you every night how much he misses you and can't sleep without you, then you need to know it's true.
This guy really misses you and you you might consider giving him a second chance.
6. He feels guilty
If he's the one who initiated the breakup and is now constantly trying to reach you and subtly apologizing to you, that's a ultimate sign of guilt.
It's hard for him to live with a guilty conscience and he will do anything to make you forgive him.
It doesn't necessarily mean that he wants to get back with you.
He may just want to shake off the feeling of guilt and that is why he needs your confirmation that you have forgiven him so that he can move on with his life.
But, if you're not willing to forgive him, don't force yourself just to make him feel better.
Instead, ignore his texts and calls when necessary and reach out to him when you feel ready.
7. He's jealous
This is one of the most common reasons why guys won't leave you alone even though you're finally happy without them.< /p>
He just can't accept that you are having the time of your life while he rots inside waiting for you to notice.
This feeling overwhelms him and he immediately becomes jealous and does things he never thought he would do.
He starts texting you, calling you and even follow you.
He loses himself and your ignorance towards him only makes it worse.
If you suspect he is just jealous, be frank with him about what you think and let him know that you will not tolerate this type of behavior in the future.
8 . He's gone insane
This is a serious condition and you should never take it for granted.
If it keeps giving you texts, calls you, follows you, sends you gifts, begs you and even threatens that he will commit suicide if you don't come back to him he's gone mad.
When we're in love, our brain produces chemicals that are similar to when we're on drugs.
These chemicals create intense attraction and you feel like you couldn't be without that person live.
And some people find it hard to leave you alone because they are still addicted to you in a way.
If he's quite nice and plö ;suddenly shifting into an unknown aggressive manner, he's in some real trouble and you should be careful how you talk to him.
Always ask for help and support from your friends and family and try not to panic when you are around him.
9. He manipulates you
Sometimes he doesn't want to leave you alone because he wants to play some mind games with you.
He wants you back in his world just to tell you he doesn't want you anymore.
Guys will do this when their ego is hurt and especially if you were the one who initiated the breakup.
He'll be all nice and sweetüß just to prove to you that he has changed, but believe me he hasn't.
His main interest is to boost his ego and prove to the world that he is in able to win you back even if he has no intention of keeping you.
You'll know that's why when you start thinking whatever what I do, he won't leave me alone.
He will not leave you alone until he has satisfied his manipulative ways.
10. He's Indecisive
There are also some guys who are indecisive and can't decide whether to get back together with you or leave you alone. < /p>
That's why he just can't stop contacting you and he will always try to start conversations even if you've specifically told him that you don't engage in any kind of communication with him are interested.
If you're indecisive, you have no idea what you're doing and therefore he'll seem like he's contradicting himself all the time by giving you mixed signals.
For example, he could tell you how much he misses you and then step away for a while, come back and so on.
If he keeps doing that , give him an ultimatum and tell him that you will block him until he comes to his senses.