Have you ever heard the old saying that we can never be too busy for the people we love?
While that's true, the problem is that we take those words too seriously. It's true that you need to be there for your partner whenever they need you.
But that doesn't mean that you neglect your personal interests or other important people in your life and "to reach" should become for your husband.
You need to set some personal boundaries and respect them. You need to show him that you have a life outside of your relationship.
Believe me, sometimes you have to be the aloof play because it's no fun does if you are always too easy for your husband.
Sometimes love blinds us and you may not see that you are available to your partner.
Anyway, here are a few clear signs to look out for.
1. You organize your time according to his schedule
You have your job, maybe some hobbies, your family and your friends.
You're like this every day busy, yet organize your time as your friend desires or as their schedule allows.
Even on the busiest of days, you always have time to chat or meet up with him.
Nothing is as important to you as he is. Not even your family or friends.
2. You always call him first
You're deeply in love with him, and no matter how much time you've spent together – as soon as he's gone, you'll miss him again.
You miss him when he's not there. That's why you always call him first. You're always trying to connect because you just want to hear his voice or know how his day was.
Put down your phone and wait for him to call you. You need to see if he misses you too and if he would call you just to hear how your day was.
Have him run after you for a change.
3. You text him back immediately
Every time you get a text from him, you text him back immediately, like you've been waiting for it all day.
You even apologize to him if you don't reply to him right away .
You enjoy his messages so much that no matter what you are doing or how busy you are, you always find time to chat.
4. Your friendships suffer
You don't mind dumping your friends every time he reschedule your date.
You want to show him that you always have time for him, even if it might cost you your friendships.
If you really think he appreciates it, you are completely wrong. He will only see how easily you let your loved ones down.
5. You accept his last minute invitations
Inviting someone last minute is rude and disrespectful.
I know how much you love spending time with him, but you should make him understand that he needs to respect your boundaries.
Don't be afraid to reject him. Make him understand that you are not an option for anyone.
Also explain to him that you have your own life and that you cannot rearrange your daily routine according to his wishes.
6. You forget your personal boundaries
Healthy boundaries are good for any relationship.
If you want to build a long-term relationship, you need to set some boundaries and your partner needs to respect them.
However, if your partner takes it too far, don't get angry because you don't have any in your relationship start a fight.
7. You tell him all your secrets
Even though you don't know him that well yet, you tell him all your secrets. You believe that he feels the same way about you and that he is keeping your secrets.
Whenever something new happens, he's the first person you tell it to. Be careful or you might tell him something he doesn’t like.
8. You agree with everything he says
You two are different and it's natural for you to have different views and opinions on some subjects.
But you forget that and start to agree with him on everything.
The word NO is no longer in your vocabulary.
You agree with everything your partner says because you're so in love with them that you're afraid to say NO to them.
You don't want your opinion Speak up because you are afraid that a conflict could arise and he would then leave you.
9. You become dependent on him
You want to be with him all the time because you are sad if you don't see him for even a day.< /p>
You can't do anything else without including him in your plans.
You even ask him for his opinion on your job or ask for his permission to do anything.
You should know that such relationship behavior is one step away from a toxic relationship.
10. You don't want to date anyone else even though it's not official with you two
Even though your relationship isn't official yet, you don't want to date anyone else.
No matter how long it takes, you're willing to wait for him to decide whether or not he's ready for a relationship.
If any of the above If that applies to you, I can only tell you one thing: live your life outside of a relationship.
At least you show people how to treat you. If you're easy on your hands right from the start, you'll always be expected to behave in the same way.