Dating is undoubtedly a vast, unpredictable jungle that will keep you racking your brains over and over again for countless hours waiting for the expected calls and messages.
So you went on a date with a guy you're crazy about, you're 100% sure the date went well, and it turns out you're right about that.
Or you did Date a guy you're really into and although you think the date went well, he hasn't called back.
Then you start thinking about what could have gone wrong or what you could possibly have done to ruin your chances of going on a second date with him.
But the worst part of all is sitting on your phone and still hoping the guy will call, even though you know deep down that you're only postponing the disappointment.
Table of ContentsFade in 1 1. The chemistry of the conversation isn't right 2 2. Constant arguments 3 3. You said something wrong (or he did) 4 4. He's friendly but doesn't flirt with you 5 5. He talks about how busy he is. 6 6. He doesn't really care about your life and doesn't tell you much about his. 7 7. He's late and doesn't tell you 8 8. He looks around more than he looks at you 9 9. He walks ahead of you 10 10. No kiss goodnight
1. The chemistry of conversation isn't right
But what does it mean when the chemistry of conversation is right? In effect, it means having something to talk about.
When the conversation flows smoothly and there's just no room for awkward pauses, then you know the chemistry is right.
But if most of the time you're in awkward silence and new topics of conversation were forced, then he probably won't get back to you.
2. Constant arguments
It is perfectly understandable that people have different opinions on certain subjects, so that in such cases disagreements are inevitable.
But if there are constant arguments between the two of you, even over the most trivial topics, then it is obvious that you have no connection.
In this case, you should not expect his call.< /p>
3. You said something wrong (or he did)
The date was going pretty well until a crucial moment when you said something wrong (or he said something wrong), there was this awkward silence for a minute or more and you had no idea how to get out of this awkward situation .
From the moment you said it you knew your date was going to end badly and you saw it in his eyes too, but still there was hope that he would get in touch, even though you knew deep down that nothing would come of it.
4. He's friendly but doesn't flirt with you
If a man stays 100% friendly in conversation and never flirts with you, he's probably up to something completely different than what you might have thought.
By doing so, he's signaling you in a subtle way that he likes you in a friendly way, but on a deeper level he's not really attracted to you and that's why he won't want to contact you anymore.
5. He's talking about how busy he is.
If you told him you'd like to see him again and he immediately mentioned how busy he is, then you know he's just making excuses not to get back to you have to.
If he makes excuses, it means that he is not interested in a second meeting.
It's his way of telling you politely.
6. He doesn’t really care about your life and doesn’t tell you much about his.
If a man isn't interested in your life, interests, hobbies, job, friends, family and everything else, then he's not really interested in getting to know you better.
And if he doesn't want to tell you about his life, that also means he wants to keep his distance because he's probably only interested in a one-night stand.
7. He's late and doesn't let you know
If he knew he was going to be late and didn't tell you at all, that means he made a conscious decision not to give a damn how it makes you feel.< /p>
You definitely shouldn't trust him, and you shouldn't waste any more time waiting on your cell phone for him to call.
8. He looks around more than he looks at you
If you're wondering how to read a fuckboy, just look at his behavior in public.
Does his eyes wander around a lot and is it difficult for him to focus on you?< /p>
If so, that means he doesn't really want to be with you, just wants to get in touch with you.
And if he doesn't reach out, you should happy guess.
9. He walks in front of you
When a man obviously doesn't want to walk right next to you or hold hands on a date, he tries to be ”invisible” to be.
He walks in front of you because he obviously doesn't want to be seen with you.
And he won't get in touch with you to avoid his potential future Ruining dates with other women. Really bad, I know.
10. No kiss goodnight
It's really hard for a man who's enjoyed your time not to kiss you goodnight at the end of your date.
Bottom line: if a man really wants to see you again and if he plans to get in touch with you, he will kiss you goodnight without you even reminding him.
< p>But if he doesn't, he'll just run away, embarrassed.
Katharina Hansen
She is a trained psychologist and a talented author. For her, every person matters and every life story is unique. That's why her advice comes not only from her knowledge, but also from her heart.
