Wouldn't it be easier to spot the signs he wants you back right away?< /p>
We've all been through this.
We've all been yelling at our phones, sending endless texts in the middle of the night.
We are we all fell asleep crying and asked ourselves why something like this had to happen to us.
“Why me, dear God?” Who hasn't said that at least once in their life?
So, after gulping down tons of ice cream or some other poison to make you feel a little better, you realized that you'll be fine on your own.
You don't need a man to be happy ;to be happy.
That was the all-important sentence in your life at the time and you made your peace with it.
You were easily able to live your life without it.< /p>
Of course, nothing is as easy as it seems.
In particular, when you went through a painful and fairly quick breakup without major drama, you know the bad end is yet to come.
Because you know things aren't went so easy.
The real trouble is slowly brewing without you having a clear idea of it.
And that's… he wants you back.
Why in God's name is he doing this to you?
Why does he suddenly want you back when he rejected you?
He didn't want you when he had you and now that you're gone and made your peace with it, after accepting that you're single and happy with it, he comes crawling back and sending you secret signs .
How should you react?
Should you jump up and welcome him with open arms or send him to hell and make it clear to him that he had his chance and blew it?
Maybe you should first establish the reasons why he wants you back in the first place and why he's afraid to admit it.
First you should know if he really loves you or just you Wants back because he's alone, does he want you to boost his ego, or just sex?
To see if the signs he's sending you because he wants you back but is scared are real, you need to find out if there are any signs that he really loves you or he's just dating you for any reason.
Signs that he really loves you:
1. The way he looks at you
For him, there is only you.
When you enter a room full of people, his eyes become only be focused on you, really only on you.
When he looks at you, his whole heart opens and his eyes reveal how vulnerable he is right now.
2 . He knows what is important to you
He remembers the things that are very important to you.
Even though you broke up, he doesn't follow the “no contact rule” and continues to check in from time to time by texting or calling you, mostly when you have something big coming up because he already knows.
Well, even if you're separated are, he is still a support for you when it comes to important things.
4. He asks for your opinion
Despite your breakup, he asks for your opinion.
He wants your advice, in Matters he didn’t know anymore.
He wouldn’t ask you for advice, nor would he contact you if he didn’t love you anymore.
5. He's trying to make you laugh
After everything that happened, you still get the occasional message about clumsy actions or some jokes from him.
This shows that he still cares about you and probably still does always strong feelings for you left.
6. He only wants the best for you
Maybe that's the main reason why he broke up with you at the time.
Maybe he thinks so , not being good enough for you and because he loves you so much, letß he will let you go because he only wants the best for you.
He's not a manipulative asshole who only cares about himself.
Maybe he really loves you, is crazy about you, so letß he left you and now he wants you back but won't admit it.
If he shows some of these signs, you can be sure he still loves you and wants you back , but doesn't want to admit it.
He's probably ashamed that he let you go in the first place.
Probably white that he made a mistake and there will never be a second chance for him.
Now let's check what's really behind this, does he really want you back?< /p>
Signs he wants you back but is scared.
1. He tries to forget you very quickly
Nobody gets over a breakup in a few days just like that.
It usually is a long and painful process.
Even if he didn’t love you, getting back to business as usual at lightning speed wouldn’t be that easy.
No, it’s just a confirmation that he’s strong feelings had for you and now he wants to shake her off as soon as possible.
Love is a complicated thing. Relationships are complicated things.
You can't just break up and hope the pain will subside in seconds like you're ripping off a band-aid, because that's not how it works.
Things like this don't work that way .
You have to cry, you have to hate your life for a while and then you have to finally accept things as they are.
So if you catch him partying like he does dating other women and yelling that he's fine and over you, he's definitely not.
In reality he is desperate and trying to come to terms with having made a huge mistake.
2. He's still in touch with your family
Okay, we all know that you choose your partner, but not your family.
Family gives' ;s easy to do and if you really love him you will also learn to accept and love his family no matter what they are like.
Some are extremely lucky with their in-laws and some are not.
If your ex is still in touch with your family when he shouldn't be, it's a clear sign that he still likes you and wants you back, even though he's afraid to admit it for some reason.
3. He's asking out your mutual friends about you
If you've been in a long-term relationship, you probably had some mutual friends, or his friends became yours and your friends too to his.
Now these friends find themselves in an awkward position.
Most of the time they have to choose sides, but there are some who remain neutral no matter what.
Boyfriends like this are the ones ex-boyfriends most often target when they want to get back with their ex.
He'll probably ask about you, what do you do or if you're meeting someone new.
He will be very interested in your life because he regrets not being a part of it and really wants you back.
4. He's texting you
He'll be texting you out of nowhere.
He's texting you to make sure you're okay you're fine, like he wants to be friends with you, despite the fact that you're no longer in a relationship.
He doesn’t want to force you to have a conversation with him and he knows just the right amount of messages to send you without being intrusive but still sticking in your mind.
Actually, he wants to know how you are doing – if you are as miserable as he is and if so he will try to get you back because obviously he made a big mistake but doesn't want to admit it.
He is ashamed like letting a perfect girlfriend like you go.
5. He talks about your relationship
He keeps mentioning the good old days and how much fun it was; you did.
In truth, most of us only remember the good times after we've broken up with someone, especially after some time has passed.
But he deliberately talks about the good times you had with the aim of making you think back to your fond memories.
This is a sign that he wants you back but is afraid of how you might react, so he's trying to remind you of the good times.
But you knows that it takes time to forget what happened.
It takes time to heal the emotional wounds and get over all the bad things that happened to you and he needs that too.
So strategically he will wait for a while and then come back and talk about happy moments.
If you still have feelings for him, give him a second chance and a chance to explain himself, because he's obviously still crazy about you.
6. He changes for the better
You can't change someone and that's a fact.
By that I mean you can't change the core of who a person really is, but you can change their behavior, their reactions and their actions.
You can show them that their behavior is not okay.
You can point out their mistakes and help them work on them.
The point is that the only thing you can do is to show them where things went wrong and give them a helping hand when they want to make things right.
When you were dating you wanted it to work out but he wouldn't listen. He thought everything was fine with him.
But now he has probably realized that you were right after all and now wants to change and develop further.
He wants to learn from his mistakes and improve his behavior.
You can clearly see that from his current behavior.
That means he takes your words to heart taken and wants to mend and get you back, but won't admit it.
7. He calls you when he's drunk
The words of a drunk are the thoughts of the sober.
That's the absolute truth.< /p>
When you are under the influence of alcohol, your thinking becomes irrational and all the things and feelings that you hide inside come out loud.
The consequences of your You don't care about words or actions, and you'll say just about anything that's on your mind.
So if he calls you drunk and tells you that he loves you and wants you back, he probably really does.
This can be a tricky situation though, because he could too just want to have sex with you.
So how do you know which of these two situations is true?
Well, if he calls you the next morning and humbly apologizes, you know that's a sign he wants you back but is afraid of your reaction when he doesn't call though, then you know he only wanted you for one thing – Sex.
8. He is very active on social media
He follows you and likes your photos, but not in a creepy way, but in a nice and friendly way or he does something completely counter to it ;res and posts too many photos of himself having fun.
The first scenario is his calm and rational way of showing you that he likes you.
If he didn’t like you, he wouldn’t care about your photos or interested in your social media profiles.
The second scenario is his irrational and funny way of dealing with the pain of losing you.
He posts photos of it, how he parties hard and hangs out with various women.
This is how he tries to make you jealous and it's a cry for help because he's realized he's lost something he shouldn't – you.
9. He's talking about your breakup
Maybe he's doing it out of the blue or he's come up with a whole introductory scenario for you to hear about the reasons speak for your separation.
In any case, he still has some unresolved problems that he would like to solve.
I mean, why else would you bring up something so sensitive and painful like a breakup if you don't want to talk about it and work it out or just get it over with?
If he starts talking about your breakup, he'll most likely want to break it up, although it's also possible to want to finish it.< /p>
The best way to find out which of the two options is by letting the conversation flow in the direction he would like it to go.
If he has regrets shows, then he wants you back, but if he's just stating facts and looking for answers, he just wants to wrap it up.
10. He wants you to stay friends
After all, no matter what happens between the two of you, he will do everything to keep you friends.
He will do anything to keep you in his life, even if it means he suffers in secret because he loves you and can't get you back.  ;
Think about it. Who wants to stay friends with their ex?
Who wants to be constantly reminded that things didn't work out between you and you've only had one failed relationship?
Just a guy who wants you back but is afraid to admit it.